Why Do You Defy Change When It Is Inevitable And All Around You!
Change is inevitable in the world we live!
Change
Is Not To Be Feared But Rather Embraced!
Why are people so afraid of change?
Say the word to a group of people like in a seminar,
conference, class, I mean a gathering of people and you can see their heart
palpitations and nervousness like something bad is about to happen.
You are afraid to surrender and embrace change because
you don’t want to lose control, but you never had control all you ever had was
fear and anxiety, both causing the fear to embrace change and a new way of
seeing things.
Why do people associate or equate change with something
to fear or fear of the unknown, yet the unknown holds so much treasure and
promise if only we can embrace it and welcome it gladly with open arms.
Embrace
The Change And Experience Life Better!
Many have been afraid of changes in their lives but upon
accepting and embracing it has come to discover that it was a great source of
blessing and miracle in their lives.
There are countless examples all over the world to
buttress my point and testimonies too numerous to share of people who have been
blessed by a simple change.
For some it has brought about great healing that for so
long, they had battled to find and end their challenges and problems but all to
no avail.
For others it has opened their sense of being and allowed
them to discover the truth about who there are at the core of their beingness,
they have allowed themselves to shed the fear that had held them captive for so
long.
Let
Go Of All Fears!
As soon as they had shed the fear or the need to fear
what they do not know nor understand, they had come to such peace and joy as
they embraced their true divinity and found only bliss there.
Their embrace only brought greater understanding and
wisdom that they would never had nor dreamt of coming though did they hold unto
the fear of the unknown.
Why
do you fear the unknown so much?
Why
Do You Fear What You Don’t Know Nor Understand?
Yet the answer or solution lies in not resisting this unknown
and the tandem change that consequently comes with it, but totally and
wholesomely embracing this change and keying in into this great gift of the
divine source.
Many have been cured of “incurable diseases and
disorders, malady and ailment” as soon as they chose to embrace this condition
and seek to understand it and why it is happening to them and in their lives.
There is always a spiritual lesson in ever ailment,
malady, disease, disorder or conditions that assail the body and forces you to
take a closer look at your life, especially at your habits and conditionings.
A lot of people don’t understand that it is our habits
that creates the behaviour and attitudes that are responsible for our lot in
life.
You
Cannot Dodge Change!
Yet at any given opportunity they would rather dodge
change than have to do something differently than the way the subconscious mind
wants to do it.
If you recall, you would remember that the subconscious
is a “habit mind” that is resistant and in some cases violently resistant to
change and would do anything and everything to keep you attuned to the ways it
is used to.
Even though these old ways are outdated and no longer
serve you, it will argue and try to convince you how it pays you better since
it is the path you are accustomed to.
It wouldn’t show how this same path or course of action
in the past had yielded nothing or no tangible results for you.
Yet the answer to changing your life and the course of
your life, especially if you are dissatisfied and not happy with your life is
through this same change.
Ironical isn’t it?
Change
Is Inevitable!
No matter which course or direction you are on or where
your life is headed, change is inevitable whether you like it or not or whether
you believe it or not.
Remember the popular slogan “the only constant thing in
life is change”
Anything impossible becomes possible through change.
Change brings growth, empowerment and transformation.
If there is no change in your life then you are stagnant
and when you are stagnant, then you are dying and will eventually die or cease
to exist in this particular form you are in for this existence.
When you cease to exist in this particular state, you are
transformed into another state and continue your existence.
You are energy!
You are pure light!
You are light and love!
There is nothing absolutely to fear as change comes and
you embrace it but so much to gain and enjoy as you fold into its pure joy and
ecstasy and it envelopes you in its embrace of pure love.
By virtue of spiritual law nothing remains stagnant as
either you are moving forward or you are going backwards but either ways there
is movement and you are moving according to your state of consciousness.
Many more have discovered the joy and bliss of change and
ever evolving and finding their true being and self. This has opened up the
meaning of life and who and why they are here.
They have come into greater understanding that has left
them entranced in the majesty of change and they are ever evolving and becoming
more and more aware of themselves and who they really are.
So I
Put It Across To You Dear Friend, Why Are You Afraid Of Change?
Why not give into your fear and instead of being afraid
of what you don’t know and since fear is nothing but a thought in the mind,
it’s the usual narratives of the mind, that keeps you trapped in the old and
not wanting you to be free to find the new.
It knows the new shall set you free and you shall become
a new person and a new being ever evolving and with greater awareness and
higher state of consciousness.
Why not challenge yourself then and face this thing
called fear that you had previously feared because you had thought that it was
a monster, you will be amazed at what you will discover.
You will be dumbfounded or astonished to discover that
what you thought was a giant monster or monstrosity (usually the play of
illusion by the mind to keep you trapped and unable to discover the truth about
your real self), was actually nothing more than a scared little mice.
Imagine that?
I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this
post, please drop us a line.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have questions
or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers
listed below:
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