Suffering Arises When You Want Things To Be Different: Learn The Lesson Inherent And Move On!

There is a time and season for every possible case scenario in our lives and the most important thing is our attitude and reaction when the worst case scenarios hit us hard with a deep blow to the underside and without warning.

The normal reaction is for the person to go into a negative mode and the complaints and harsh criticisms follow suit.

The mind when allowed to run on its own without adequate and right monitoring and control, can create its own narratives which are true to its own very nature.

The Mind Sees Strife And Chaos!

Remember that the mind is trained to see problems, difficulties and challenges while at the core of your being, you are trained to see the opposite.

As a being of pure light and love, you see the beauty and divine grace in all things and all creatures irrespective of the level they are or the condition they maybe in that present moment.

You are a creative principle and a spark of God. A being of pure light and love and a law unto yourself only if and when you realize this great truth.

“You are Soul” – ever loving, ever present, ever divine.

The problem with people in the world is that they have forgotten who and what they are and as such are living the life they think is what their lives should be.

But they are so wrong!

Observe The Workings Of Your Mind!

Take a minute to observe the workings of your mind and realize that most time, there seems to be an automated voice in your head and that voice is so quick to make suggestion.

These suggestions are usually so quick and fast and most times after you heeded to the instructions from the voice, you suddenly start to feel bad about yourself and your action.

You question yourself about doing it and you ask “Was it the right action and the right thing to do?”

Most times, the unhappiness stays with you awhile and you go over the action over and over again, trying to find justification for your action and subsequently peace of mind.

For a lot of people, this doesn’t come so easily especially when the consequences of your action (thoughts, words and deeds) are right there in front of you and you are forced to confront the truth daily.

Take Control Of Your Life!

At this point, these people have control over themselves or have worked on themselves to come into a state where they can easily judge whatever thoughts come to the mind and decide for themselves if it’s what they want or not.

They are now centered in their hearts and as such the mind cannot easily run its narratives and programs through them and easily trick them into believing that they are the ones making the decision for their life and reality.

They have come to that state where they can calm the mind down and let it run its usual narratives and play of negatives – chaos, trouble, problems, anxiety, stress and the likes.

Yet they refuse to enter into that state and fuse with it as they can easily see the illusion that is being played before their eyes and rather turn down their minds so that it goes slow on these while they remain calm and serene.

Calmness and Serenity are our true states as the ultimate spark of divine reality and as such should always stay in that position no matter the circumstances, events and situations in our lives.

This is the whole purpose of existence and the way to stay focused and balanced in our lives.

Suffering Helps You See Your Errors!

You will be amazed and surprised to see where the mistake or mistakes come from and how you have been ignorant of certain things and the situation only arose to bring your attention to your weak points and weaknesses.

Like in the case of a person who lacks discipline to control spending while in a tight cash flow, the blessing and the lesson of the situation is for that person to learn the discipline and nothing more.

Once the lesson has been learnt which caused the suffering in the first place and now after the person hasn’t resisted it but had rather worked through it, then the person can go back up more naturally and this time, the person has the discipline to make better informed choices and decisions because they know the consequences of such.

In relationships, it’s the same situation.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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