You Are Responsible For Your Reality: No One Else!

It’s always so easy to point accusing fingers at others when things aren’t going the way we want in our lives while oblivious of the fact that the remaining four are pointing right back at you, showing up explicitly without a shred of doubt that you are responsible for your reality and what’s happening to you at the moment.

 

It’s Time For Sober Reflection!

When we truly reflect on our lives we will realize that this present time is nothing more than an accumulation of moment by moment choices that we had made in the past, without understanding that every choice made consciously or unconsciously has consequences and you are held liable for them.

You!

Yes You!

Not your neighbour or your friend who has been so unkind and cruel to you (but in truth they are both your teachers for a reason and a season which has been agreed to by mutual consent but of course you can’t recall this arrangement).

 

How Reality Happens!

How often do we wake up unhappy with our present condition and immediate surroundings, wishing by some stroke of luck that we can change it into something with what we want or desire?

How many times more do we awaken to what to us means a hostile environment and we stress ourselves out worrying our head off wanting to change things into something more in tune with what we want and desire?

We assume albeit erroneously that something else outside of us in the external world is responsible for our condition or state of health.

 

The Mind And It’s Narratives!

Then your mind goes into over drive and you begins to create and recreate its narratives and play, bringing in its cast and crew and manifesting them as reality of your life and experience and this is only because you have allowed it to be so, you believed totally in your mind, its narratives and play and its passions.

And it goes on and on and the negative thoughts create this storm of negativity and negative storm around you and belong long you hopelessly attract more and more and even more negativity around you and into your life.

The more the negative thoughts the greater the negative storm and therefore the negative reality in your outer life and then you begin to feel so bad and probably think or even believe that you are crazy.

And you probably are because negative things happen all around you without a plausible explanation as to why it’s happening.

 

Reality Starts Within You!

Whatever starts within you is manifested eventually to the outer world as your ultimate reality and life’s experiences.

Great ones and scientists of old and even currently are singing this like a broken record all the time that whatever is happening outside of you is coming and can only come from what’s happening from the inside of you.

So take a moment to watch your thoughts and emotions like a cat watches a mouse and guard them jealously like a jealous lover.

Take time to observe your thoughts and emotions for a day and see the corresponding events of that day and compare what has happened so far.

 

Gratitude Is The Key To Changes!

You will observe that when your thoughts and emotions are happy and constructive and you are in the high spirit of gratitude and love, you experience unexplainable joy and happiness all day long.

Because of your high vibes and good mode you find that suddenly all things seem to work in your favour and everything turns out exactly as you want them to be even prolonging your happy state further.

It’s as if the entire world has conspired to make things work and move in your favour for the ultimate fulfilment of your hearts desires and wants.

You see like with totally different eyes and can see the interconnectivity of all life and the beauty and splendor of nature and all creation.

On the other hand you will observe that when your thoughts and emotions are sad and destructive and you are in the low spirit of anxiety and stress that you experience unexplainable unhappiness and sadness all day long.

Because of your low vibes and sour mode you find that suddenly all things seem to work not in your favour or against you and everything turns out not exactly as you want them to be even prolonging your misery and unhappy state further.

 

Life Takes On A Whole New Meaning!

It’s as if the entire world has conspired to make things work against you and move in another direction or path that is not for the ultimate fulfilment of your hearts desires and wants.

You see like with totally different eyes and can only see the anger, fear, anxiety and stress which have manifested as a cruel and unhappy world that is out to get you so you cry out in sadness and misery.

If you will take the moment to do a deep reflection of your life to wonder at how it all happened and how things has changed so suddenly then you will see the point at which you veered off-course and started to create the negative reality that has become your experience.

Now you can go back and recreate your reality to what you want and desire by changing your thoughts and emotions back to the high vibes of gratitude and love and you will see a change in your reality for the better.

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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