Be Patient During The Dark Days:  The Dawn and Light Is Coming!

No matter the situation or experience you may be passing through in the present moment, when you understand that everything in your – I mean absolutely everything in your life is happening for a reason, it becomes easier to move with the flow and ebb of life.

The victim mentality helps no one because no one is a victim, anything and everything that is happening in your life has come to you because you attracted it and them into your life by virtue of your thoughts, words and action.

Building Resilience Is The Key To Overcoming Hardship In Life!

Resilience is the mental (mind control) ability to recover quickly from malady, illness, disorder and misfortune getting back to the wholesome state of good health and bliss.

People would give up at the mere presence or springing up of problems, challenges or situations in their lives without giving a thought to or pausing for a moment to think that these things are there for a reason and they need to ask themselves:

·      Why is this happening to me

·      What is this trying to teach me

·      Where am I going wrong in my life

·      What lesson am I still not getting thereby repeating the same mistakes over and over again.

Building Resilience:

It’s so easy to give up easily when confronted with what seems like insurmountable challenges and problems and the recourse is to give up.

 

But when we take a breather or a moment to look at it again, stepping back and looking from the 360 degree vantage point, we will be shocked to discover the illusion in what seems to be a mystery.

 

The solution already exists in the problem, all you have to do is take a step take to critically look at and address the problem and lo and behold, everything will become crystal clear to you – the reason for the problem or challenge being experienced (there is always a lesson in every situation and circumstances that we go through).

 

When that happens then you will clearly see the answer that had been unclear to you or some would believe hidden from them but that’s where they are wrong because it had always been there, right in front of them to see but they have been oblivious to it all along.

 

Why Are People So Afraid Of Change?

Say the word to a group of people like in a seminar, conference, class, I mean a gathering of people and you can see their heart palpitations and nervousness like something bad is about to happen.

You are afraid to surrender and embrace change because you don’t want to lose control, but you never had control all you ever had was fear and anxiety, both causing the fear to embrace change and a new way of seeing things.

Why do people associate or equate change with something to fear or fear of the unknown, yet the unknown holds so much treasure and promise if only we can embrace it and welcome it gladly with open arms.

Many have been afraid of changes in their lives but upon accepting and embracing it has come to discover that it was a great source of blessing and miracle in their lives.

For some it has brought about great healing that for so long, they had battled to find and end their challenges and problems but all to no avail.

For others it has opened their sense of being and allowed them to discover the truth about who there are at the core of their beingness, they have allowed themselves to shed the fear that had held them captive for so long.

Surrender Is The Key!

As soon as they had shed the fear or the need to fear what they do not know nor understand, they had come to such peace and joy as they embraced their true divinity and found only bliss there.

This when they developed resilience they needed to overcome the present challenge as they learned to be strong, fearless and work through their issues by embracing this hardship before them.

Their embrace only brought greater understanding and wisdom that they would never had nor dreamt of coming though did they hold unto the fear of the unknown.

Why Do You Fear What You Don’t Know Nor Understand?

Yet the answer or solution lies in not resisting this unknown and the tandem change that consequently comes with it, but totally and wholesomely embracing this change and keying in into this great gift of the divine source.

Many have been cured of “incurable diseases and disorders, malady and ailment” as soon as they chose to embrace this condition and seek to understand it and why it is happening to them and in their lives.

There Is A Reason For Everything!

There is always a spiritual lesson in ever ailment, malady, disease, disorder or conditions that assail the body and forces you to take a closer look at your life, especially at your habits and conditionings.

A lot of people don’t understand that it is our habits that creates the behaviour and attitudes that are responsible for our lot in life.

Yet at any given opportunity they would rather dodge change than have to do something differently than the way the subconscious mind wants to do it.

If you recall, you would remember that the subconscious is a “habit mind” that is resistant and in some cases violently resistant to change and would do anything and everything to keep you attuned to the ways it is used to.

Even though these old ways are outdated and no longer serve you, it will argue and try to convince you how it pays you better since it is the path you are accustomed to.

It wouldn’t show how this same path or course of action in the past had yielded nothing or no tangible results for you.

Be Patient!

Yet the answer to changing your life by overcoming hardship is by building resilience, especially if you are dissatisfied and not happy with your life is through this same change.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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