Self-Mastery Is The Key To A Great Life: It Means You Know And Understand The Ways Of Spirit And How They Apply To You!

Everyone has fantasies and imaginations of what they desire and wish their lives to be but some hold onto it until it materializes as a reality in their outer world while others just believe it’s too good to be true and so they discard their fantasies and miss out on an exciting life.

Remember, every thought you have and hold unto believing as true is true and will come into manifestation in your life as your reality as your reality for as long as you believe in it.

Firstly, take a peek into the lives of most people rich and poor and check out their mindset and how it affects their lives and reality.

The rich man is a happy man, he understands the concept of the law of attraction and knows that he must work for his upkeep while at the same time living in gratitude and love for the gift of life.

He understands that life is a gift and is ever appreciative of this gift. He knows that he must accept life with all its ups and down and that no matter how the tides of life turns or what lives brings, he will be okay.

He reaches out to his neighbours and helps out in whatever way that he can ever appreciative of the many blessings of his life.

When things go wrong as they tend to do sometimes much to our discomfort, he is quick not to jump into conclusion in blaming others but to ask himself the golden questions:

Why is this happening to me?

What is this experience trying to tell me or teach me about myself?

On that note and taking a step backwards, he can critically review the situation or condition and constructively change the course of his life.

The poor man just across the street presents a different story altogether. He is ever critical and lamenting about the unfairness and inequality in life.

He forgets so soon that whatever you sow you must reap and as such that everything that comes to a man is what he has inevitably consciously or unconsciously drawn into his own life and experience.

He is ever envious and critical of others especially those who are fair better than him in the course of their life ever lamenting and blaming other people or the government for his woes.

You Are Still Human!

The society expect a perfect human being at all times and in order to follow the trend you get to join the crowd, faking it and lying your way through and all the way to prove that you have it all together and are a super human being that is loved and respected by all.

The moment you don’t have it all together, you tend to fall apart or almost fall apart from stress – emotional and mental, giving precedence to other people’s thoughts and beliefs about you over your own.

You believe that if you don’t have it all together like others then you are a failure, or any of those other negative thoughts and emotions that suddenly spring out of nowhere in the mind.

See The Interconnectivity Of All Life!

The more we begin to see the interplay of things in life and the order even within the disorder that is life starts to make more sense to us.

You begin to adjust our thinking which unfortunately has been set from your childhood and sometimes even way before then but you are not aware of these things and how they set the pace for all your experiences in life.

You begin to marvel and come into perfect harmony and awe at the majestic of life and the wonder that is spread all around us.

You begin to see how your thoughts and feelings shape the life that is right in front of you according to your state of consciousness and what you perceive life itself to be and to mean.

You begin to see how your perception of life growing up and childhood understanding and belief in life is faulty and how wrong you have been especially if you are from a dysfunctional family and don’t understand love and affection especially from your primary caregivers – parents and foster parents.

You begin to see how love is the center of your being if you make it so by vibrating the higher frequencies of love and gratitude and you come to an understanding of how its not your parent’s or care giver’s fault for everything you have been through but that there is a natural order to things.

You begin to realize that there is a reason for everything you have been through and are going through at the moment and it’s all for the greater good of shaping you to realize and become the magnificent being that you are.

Now You Understand Life!

Then you begin to change and become a totally different person from who you were before as a great realization and understanding has befallen you and now you can see as you have realized how blinded you have been all these while.

You will now come into the state of such peace and joy that you forgive yourself for the illusion and wrong choices that was your life and thankful for the opportunity to change and recreate your life.

You can look around you and forgive everyone who has ever hurt you, undermined you or in any way brought you down to make you question yourself or self-worth.

You can now see how instrumental they were in bringing you to this new state and the bliss that is now your new found state of existence.

You are love and love is your natural state of existence.

As this new state of growth and development takes hold and places you in this new state of seeing, knowing and being, you extend and spread this love and bliss all around you into the eons of time and space.

You bless everyone all around you and they are blessed as you become the catalyst for their own change and unfoldment consciously or unconsciously by virtue of your new state of being.

You are a powerful creator and must therefore bless everyone around you with your essence and power.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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