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  Accept Your Partner’s Flaws: Nobody Is Perfect! In “The Unbearable Lightness of Being”, Milan Kundera said by way of explanation that there are two types of womanizers and chronic lovers of women: 1) Men who are looking for the perfect woman and can never find her   2) Men who convince themselves that every woman they meet is already perfect. That is love in perfect expression! In most relationships and friendships and mostly the dysfunctional relationships, partners do the unthinkable and the consequences is always the inevitable heartache and headache. They either try to make their partner perfect by “fixing” them or changing them into the concept of what they want and desire them to be or they try to create the perfection of their role model through their partners. Sometimes, they delude themselves into thinking that their partner is already perfect and because they believe this, it creates the mother of all illusion for them. But the truth of all times and all ages
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  Be Willing To End It And Move On: It’s Your Choice! Romantic sacrifice is idealized in our culture and race and the evidence is all around. Show me any romantic movie and I will show you a desperate and needy character (usually portrayed as the woman) who treats herself like dog poo and degrades herself to the lowest level possible just for the sake of being in love with someone. Standards For A Relationship! The truth is our standards for what a successful relationship should be is really crazy and doesn’t favour the females at all but rather, the man is portrayed as the hero who must be satisfied at all times and mostly to the detriment of the female. If a relationship ends and someone’s not dead, brutalized, scarred for life or left in a pitiable condition, then we view it as a failure, regardless of the emotional and psychological pains and induced trauma may have caused or brought on and the practical circumstances present in the person’s life as a result. Romeo and Juli
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  Is It Right To Hurt Each Other’s Feelings When In a Relationship? There are a lot of women who spend a lot of time practically in front of the mirror caught up in the world of glamour and self-absorption. They want to look amazing and glamorous and would do anything and everything to stay in that state. Honesty Is Key, Even If It Hurts ! They spend so much time in the bathroom and eventually room looking good and glamorous for a simple night out with their men. They are usually gorgeous. But every once in a while they may look different and unglamorous like trying something new with their hair or wear a pair of boots or heels that some flamboyant fashion designer from Milan or New York thought were avant-garde. And it just doesn’t work. When you simply tell them the truth about how it doesn’t all come together as they want – the glamorous fashionista, they get angry and may go back to redo the whole process again wasting valuable time lost already. In some instances, they