Do Not Wait On Others For Your Joy Nor Be Dependent On Them!

It’s so common especially in love relationships for one partner to be emotionally tied up or dependent on the other partner and when they aren’t getting it, all hell can break lose especially when the other partner is drained and can’t give them what they want and desire.

You are responsible for your own happiness in this outer world and it’s not on others nor their responsibility to make you happy nor satisfy your cravings for love and affection.

True love starts within!

You must love yourself first and unconditionally irrespective of what other people think or say about you or whatever anyone’s opinion of you may be.

You simply are love and it’s your foundation and the core of who and what you truly are.

You are a magnificent being more powerful than you can ever know or imagine and the world is at your feet to do with and as in whatever way you wish and desire but you are responsible for every choice and deed made.

The Joy Of Life Is To Love And Spread The Love All Around!

The joy of living is to be grateful for the choices you have made today, yesterday and will make tomorrow as you embrace the moment and continue to live in the here and now empowered in embracing life and everything it brings your way.

When you realize how blessed you are, you simply desire nothing more than to spread this love around so others can participate in the joy of life and love themselves as love is the foundation of all life.

Giving And Receiving love Is What Life Is All About And It’s The Essence Of Who You Are!

Energy according to great scientists of old can neither be created nor destroyed but only transformed or changed from one state to another and yet love – divine love is pure energy.

We Are Made Of Energy!

We are principally and primarily made of energy – our atoms that comprise of who and what we are atoms of light and sound and we are the beacons of infinite everlasting light coming out of the God head and returning back to the source – the Godhead.

Our primary reason for existence and incarnation after incarnation is to find out who and what we are, we are amazingly made up of billions of light particles converging to a central point to become one and manifest as this great infinitesimal beacon of light and love.

We are here to become agents of light and love, to give and share this light and love to others and as we are giving unto others, we are also receiving from others to replenish what is going out.

You cannot be an island unto yourself therefore you cannot hold on to this light and love without giving it out to others which include fellow human beings, animals, plants and the elementals.

We are all interconnected to each other and yet again we are all connected to the Godhead – the great force and source of all life and creations.

Each one of us is but a focal point, a spark and a microcosm within this great fountain of everlasting light and sound, within the heart of the Ocean of love and mercy and within the great macrocosm itself.

We Are All Interconnected!

We are so interconnected that each has a role to play in the life and existence of the other and this is so much so that we live and exist for each other out of the great love for this great source of all life and out of love for each other.

The plants give us their crops for nourishment as we grow and harvest them for sustenance, the trees give us oxygen as we give it our carbon dioxide in exchange, the animals give us meat and other useful material in exchange for the love and care we give to them.

The sun is the source of light and energy in the entire universe and kingdom and whether we realize it or not, it is ever at work giving light during the day and shade of cover at night and helping the plants through photosynthesis make food and nourishment for themselves.

The moon is no different offering the same kindness like the sun at night when the sun is resting and allowing us to be able to move about at night.

All this forms of interaction and exchange involves exchange of energy between all points of creation for beneficial and symbiotic purposes.

When you take in all this inside of you, you feel at peace and interconnected to all creations and creatures and can only feel that gratitude for the light and love of the world.

You look deeply and unbiased at the world and you can truly see the beauty and magnificence of the world and its majesty and at the point you are at tune with your true essence and divinity.

In your true essence and divinity, you are operating of the high frequency of light and love and only on the high vibrations of positive energy of joy, happiness, peace. Tranquility, gratitude and love.

When you operate out of balance of this high state and allow the mind to draw you to the lower states of negative energy reflecting fear, anxiety, worry, bitterness and resentment, you have left your true essence and are now operation on the mind level.

Give Some Of Your Mindfulness Energy To Others!

When you are angry, when you feel despair, you can practice mindful breathing and mindful walking to generate the energy of mindfulness and help you balance the energy and bring you back to high positive energy.

This energy allows you to recognize and embrace your painful feelings and if your mindfulness is not strong enough, you can ask a brother or a sister or any close friend and family member to sit close to you, to breathe with you, to walk with you in order to support you with his or her mindfulness energy.

Practicing mindfulness does not mean that you have to do everything on your own. You can practice with the support of your friends and family.

They can generate enough mindfulness energy to help you take care of your strong emotions and counter them.

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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