Disappointments Often Triggers Old fears And Pain- let Them Go!

It’s often so easy to hold unto the feeling of having been the victim in all relationships and when it comes to disappointments, you feel a person let you down when you expected more and this often opens the door of old pain and fears.

You don’t need this and you are better off without tem so set yourself free.

Victim mentality is a trap that has led so many into the dark alley of despair that took so much from them to get out of.

Don’t let this be your story too!

There Are No Victims In Life Only People With Victim Consciousness/Mentality!

When you think that you are a victim of life, it’s like raising your hands in the air and saying you surrender to life and will just lay low and let life do with you whatever it wills.

Victim Mentality Is A Mindset!

You would rather another person or people take responsibility for the events and happenings in your life, when you know that you are responsible for everything that has happened, is happening and will happen to you in your life.

Will you just give in to the harsh reality of what’s in front of you as a manifestation without letting that Great Spirit that you are, the mighty creator that you are come in take over and create a better life?

When you see yourself as a victim of life, you are bowing to powers that you are greater than and you are telling and letting this power, walk over you and control your life.

Even when people disappoint you especially does you expect a lot from understand that they are human and are doing the best they can at that time and remember we are all here learning to be better and do better.

So let go of your expectation and just accept them for who they are as you because at the deepest level we are all the same and are all interconnected.

You Must Take Charge Of Your Life!

You are willing to be a servant when you are like the Tibetan master once said: Man is a God clothed in rags and going about begging”.

When you give in and see yourself as a victim that means that you would rather continue in the same way and keep obtaining the same results because you believe life is so unfair and a cruel and evil place.

The great law of God say: “What you sow is what you reap”.

There Are No Victims Anywhere!

When you really think about the above law and take it into context, then you can see and realize that there are no victims anywhere and what you see is what you and only you have created for yourself.

The laws of God are strict and explicit and that tells us that man is responsible for himself and the reality of his life.

By virtue of “free will” given to man, man is held liable for every choice made and is responsible for the consequences there is and cannot be otherwise.

So quit looking yourself as a victim of life and rather take charge of your life to create a better and happier life.

You Have Created Your Life!

The hard life you have, you have created for yourself consciously or unconsciously and whether you believe it or not.

The first step to changing your life and creating a better life for yourself is to take responsibility for the condition of your life at the present moment and quit pointing accusing fingers elsewhere.

Remember: what you sow is what you reap!

You aren’t exempted from the consequences of your actions and the result of such is the reality of your existence.

You a powerful creator and a master in the making who can take back control of your life and run things as you want.

You can re-evaluate the situation and rethink your life, letting go of all old concepts, beliefs, habits and attitudes that are sabotaging your life and creating this situation.

You Can Change Your Life!

Nothing outside of yourself can hurt or harm you except your own mind and that is what has held you in this vise grip of victim mentality.

So rise up to the occasion and be the powerful creator who wants to and is turning things around in your world, bringing about a new lease of life and purpose today.

No matter what you are going through, nothing lasts forever and that condition can and will change when you take the responsibility of changing it for the better.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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