Stop Worrying About What You Cannot Control!
Why do we worry about how our lives will turn out especially when in our minds we have figured it all out and wouldn’t want it to be otherwise when we are supposed to be on this great ride/journey called life and let it be what it will be?
It cannot be otherwise no matter what we do, it will
always be as it should be.
So quit trying to change the things you have absolutely
no control over so that your worries and anxieties cease.
The
More Expanded You Become The More Aware You Are!
Life is really such a precious gift and if we are truly
honest with ourselves we would realize that when you have food on your table, a
roof over your head, family and a few friends then you really are richer than
you know.
Life takes a different meaning and a whole new
perspective when you approach it from gratitude and love. It opens your heart
to the magnificent glory and spectacle that is truly before you.
You
See Life And The Interconnectivity Of All Life!
You begin to connect to nature and observe its splendid
rhythmic sequence and how the whole of nature is synced with each other
carrying each other and balancing each other out.
From the heart center you heart bursts with such joy and
ecstasy like you have never experienced before and all before you the see the
perfect creation of the divine source of all life.
You begin to understand the world and what makes the
world go round. Am afraid people believe money makes the world go round and
round?
So why worry about life when it already has everything
under control and just expects you go along and enjoy the ride.
You
Begin To Understand Life!
You begin to understand that even in the hustle and
bustle of life, there is a greater meaning events, circumstances and
situations.
Life is a great school to learn to give love and receive
love but we must choose love albeit which principally is your state of
consciousness.
But the challenges of the hustle and bustle of it all can
bring you to the state of fear, anxiety and worry and before you know it, you
are already moving from the state of love and gratitude to that of fear and
worry.
Before you know it, you may be flip over and get stuck,
seriously stuck in the mind grooves and it narratives. The mind decides to go
into protective mode and creates its own narratives.
Growing
And Evolving!
But when you are evolving and expanding, you
automatically take responsibility for your life and existence. You want to
create a more comfortable and pleasing life for yourself.
You begin to take charge of all events and that means
taking over the pilotship and control of your life and recreating your life but
only those things that you can control.
By this stage you are truly expanding and can see the
great illusion of life and the picture is beginning to take shape as you
understand that you mustn’t be caught up in the game of life.
That you must only see that which you desire to see
irrespective of your outer circumstances.
Become
Aware!
When you can truly be conscious and realize the game
playing out and try, really try to stay positive and ahead of your mind.
Most people would rephrase to means – being aware. This
comes with an expanded state of consciousness.
Awareness means you know the mind game and how the mind
likes to stay in its mental grooves and aberrations and doesn’t like change of
any form as it likes to stay always in status quo.
You come to the realization that you are not the mind and
you are not what you are thinking, you are not your thoughts.
Control
Your Mind!
Remember that the mind is simply a tool to help you
navigate the lower worlds like the physical world where you exist and since it
has made itself your protector would turn you away from change which is usually
for the better.
But when you are expanded and are becoming more aware, then
you can now take charge and become the master and make the mind the tool it was
meant to be and not the master it had made itself.
The mind doesn’t care about your feelings or opinions it
does what it’s programmed to do and what it has always done and which has
become the status quo.
So by expanding and taking charge, you become aware of
the serenity and truth of life and what it really is.
Trust
That All Is Well!
You are no longer afraid of life nor are you thrown off
balance by the situations and challenges of life. You are aware enough to
embrace life and let life be what it’s meant to be.
You don’t try to control things or let life be what you
choose or want it to be always rather you study these events and situations and
see what blessings are inherent and what it has come to teach you.
You know everything in life is a blessing and a teacher
of high states of consciousness only because you have expended and come to this
high state of consciousness.
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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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