To Succeed In Life You Must Fail Forward: This is The Secret Of The Ages To Success!

Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things, or new methods of doing things or a new perspective and outlook on life on a given problem or situation, the saddest endings in so many life stories of such great and amazing people are always these:

1. Should have

2. Might have

3. Could have

All portraying a deep scene of regret and lose!

Why Do You Fear Failure!

There is no greater failure or loss of the self except in no longer trying, and accepting defeat or inevitable finality in the face of some given circumstances without turning to check the other side.

There is no defeat in anything and from anywhere except from within in, that’s where your power lies and that’s the power to create your reality and experience and change same if things aren’t working out for you.

Every so called challenge, problem and issue of life when looked at from an unbiased point of view and when checking for its purpose, really is a lesson and a blessing for a season.

You Just Have To Look More Critically To See It And Its There!

An anonymous nugget of truth is “to make mistake is human, to repeat the same mistake is foolishness but to learn from this mistake is wisdom”.

Thomas Edison said “I failed my way to success”

So there is absolutely no reason at all to fear failure as it’s a path to success whether you like it or not and whether you believe or want it or not, it’s your path to success and has been for every successful person on earth.

Rather than fear failure as the mind conjures up its images and narratives, it’s better to embrace it and feel and experience the magic it is bringing into your life by way of lessons and inherent blessings that leave you a better and more enlightened person.

The Secret Of Life Is To Dare Life Itself!

With so many people being so scared and afraid to take a risk in life, a chance on themselves with life to be happy and understand who and what they are, they miss out on the opportunity to search for and find the secret of life.

Are you ready to find out?

Most Life’s Lessons Are Learnt In Defeat And Not In Victory!

Most people who have made a success of their lives and are in the leading line in most successful business and organizations, will tell you that they have had a fair share of defeats and losses but they refused to let that define them or define their future.

Therein then lies their success strategy!

To many are so afraid of failure way before they even start or contemplate staring a business or starting out at life, that they end up not truly ever taking off at all.

Society makes us think and for most part believe that failure is a curse, a stigma and something both unpleasant and to be ashamed of but that’s total falsehood.

Failure Is A Necessity Or A Pre-requisite To Success!

In countless seminars and symposiums all over the world, the people who share their success stories, tell how it was in that moment of loss, failure and defeat that the truth finally opened up to them, and it dawned on them where their errors and mistakes came from.

They had gotten to that state where they were totally unbiased and seek to know the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth and when you are in that state of consciousness you are fearless.

You have realized your innate abilities and understood that life is a school and training ground to realize your true nature and potential, and that at this point there was nothing to fear or be worried about.

The truth can only open up to you when you surrender and become an open channel to the divine source of all life, at this point you are connecting yourself to it and to all life.

Remember, all of life is interconnected whether we realize it or not or believe it or not.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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