Don’t Put The Key To Your Happiness In Another Person’s Pocket And Care!

As Charlie Chaplin said “As I began to love myself, I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health like food, people, things, situations and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is simply “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

Happiness Is An Inside Job!

In this world of victim consciousness, you realize that life takes on a new form and different meaning and you can’t help but wonder at the magic and beauty before you that is life.

You begin to appreciate the magnificence of this great being that you are, finally realizing after so long and after trails and problems that you are greater than everything that is around you.

You finally realize that “there are no victims anywhere”. It’s a great illusion and mind trap that the world has been engulfed in for so long and are still enmeshed in its spidery trap awaiting enlightenment and freedom.

You realize that you have been the architect of your entire life story – You. You have been:

1. The judge

2. The jury

3. The executioner

4. The masses

You begin to see the web of intricacies – lies and deceit, deception and fraud, hypnosis and enslavement that is spun like a spider’s web all around you and the world in general.

You begin to see how your very action has brought about the consequences of your life as it is today. You see how the thoughts of the mind has woven a web of illusion and deception all around you and what you think is, is not and what you think is not – really is.

Realize That Life Is A Gift!

Now as you begin to realize that life is a gift and you are blessed with the gift of beingness which makes you responsible for all your thoughts, words and actions. You now see how you have spun this life into existence.

Now you can really see how loving yourself is the key to life accompanied by gratitude for this precious gift in the first place.

This opens your heart to the light and love of pre essence from which we are born.

From this pre essence is the source of all life and the true source of true and unconditional love and forgiveness from which you can re-create your life and existence as you see fit bearing in mind that there are consequences for all actions.

“Action and reaction are equal, yet opposite” Newton law.

Life suddenly opens up more and better opportunities for you and you can create this magic you desire by imagination and perception and by virtue of the law of attraction bring it into existence in your life and nullify all previous experiences.

All this by virtue that you simple love yourself, started loving yourself and will always love yourself.

You have re-created your vibration and brought yourself back to the high frequencies of love and gratitude from the low frequencies of fear and anger.

As you love yourself, you start feeling much better about yourself and about that. You know that life may not be perfect at the present moment but that everything happens for a reason and you are up for the lesson in each experience so that you keep evolving.

Believe In This Great Source Of All Life!

You trust that everything that is contained in the present moment is absolutely for your own good and you embrace it trusting in this great source of life knowing that it’s got your back and everything will be all right in the end.

So as you look yourself, take a moment to look at yourself in the mirror and see this magnificent being that is you and the wonder that is all around you waiting to manifest only because you live in love and gratitude.

How then can you imagine another person giving this love that you so equivocally give yourself realizing who you are and what you truly are?

How can another person truly love and understand you needless to say, how can they bring you the happiness and joy that only you can give yourself.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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