Occupying the Living Room In Your Life!
Mental Images Seek To Manifest!
They want to emerge, but you don’t want these uninvited guests
to come up because they are awfully painful to look at and deal with especially
at this moment because you just aren’t ready to deal with them yet.
So you try to block their way into your mind and into your house
– state of consciousness. You want them to stay asleep down in the basement
where they are suppressed, isolated, buried and will eventually be forgotten.
You don’t want to face them yet and so you keep postponing the
inevitable hoping it doesn’t show up and gets lost somewhere in the mind so your
habit is to fill the living room with other guests.
More Suitable And Appealing To You!
Whenever you have ten or fifteen minutes of free time, you do
anything and everything you can to keep your living room occupied.
You call a friend and spend the day talking away!
You pick up a book to read and get lost in the pages!
You turn on the television and get lost in the events of the
world!
You go for a drive and get lost in nature and its beauty and
magnificence!
You hope that if the living room is occupied with different
activities that keep you busy then these unpleasant mental formations and
unwanted guests and visitors will not come up neither will they show in your
living room.
Mental Forms!
But all mental formations need to circulate and manifest, if you
don’t let them come up so that you face them, deal with them and work them out,
it will create bad circulation in your psyche and body and symptoms of mental
illness and depression will begin to manifest in your mind and
body.
Sometimes when you have a headache or migraine, you resort to
taking aspirin or Panadol or any pain killer available to you but your headache
doesn’t go away.
This kind of headache can be a symptom of mental and emotional illness
or disorder. Perhaps you also have allergies added to it and your usual anti
histamines just do not seem to work at all much to your shock and surprise.
You think it’s a physical problem as the symptoms and sign shows
physical reaction and manifestation via the body but allergies can also be a
symptom of mental illness.
You are advised by doctors to take drugs to help abate it or
totally neutralize it but sometimes these will continue to suppress your
internal formations, making our sickness worse over time.
You just need to stop running!
Be Open To See
Answers!
If you are mindful and open to your true essence and divinity via the heart, you will hear his or her voice calling out for help especially when you are relaxed and at peace with yourself.
At that moment instead of paying attention to whatever is in front of you, you should go back inwards to the source and tenderly embrace the wounded self or part of yourself that needs healing.
You can talk directly to the self with the language of love, saying, “In the past, I left you alone. I went away from you. Now, I am very sorry. I am going to embrace you.”
It will simply breathe and bask in the euphoria of life and come to the balance of the duality of this world. You would come to the understanding that life is about balance between the positive and the negative.
Take Back Control!
The mind has a knack for always springing up limitations upon limitations in its narratives in our life’s experiences all the time.
If
you pay attention long enough, you would see this simultaneous and spontaneous
reaction that seems to spring from nowhere whenever challenges and problems
comes up in our lives.
It’s
like an autopilot that has control over what you feel and how you feel it and
decides on your behalf what’s right and what’s wrong for you.
The Wounded Self Seeks
Attention!
Sometimes the wounded self in us needs all our attention and love and because the love is missing that’s why the wounded self-appeared in the first place.
The appearance of the wounded self was only because of the shortage or non-existence or even the disappearance of light and love in our lives which is our true consciousness and essence and divinity.
That little self might emerge from the depths of your consciousness and ask for your attention because it has a lesson to teach you and the lesson is repeating because you aren’t listening or paying attention to the important things in your life.
Which is:
Occupy the Living Room In Your Life!
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire
to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the
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