The Nature Of The Mind Is Non Forgiveness - Beware!

The mind is a powerful tool in the hands of the one who knows how to handle it and what use it is meant for but a bad master in the hands of the one who doesn’t understand the nature of the mind and their own greatness.

The mind is a tool for you to use for daily survival in the wind and grind of existence called life.

You are meant to control the mind and use it as an aid in imagination and visualizations as you stay grounded in who and what you are while encased in the body which isn’t who and what you are.

You are a magnificent being of pure light and love here to grow and evolve into the great being of love that you are while coming into the understanding that you are more powerful than you can ever know or imagine.

The nature of the mind is to hold unto grudges and the past and be way beyond love and forgiveness.

Forgiveness Is True Freedom

What is forgiveness?

The weak can never forgive, forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.

Mahatma Gandhi

Forgiveness according to the English dictionary simply means to pardon, to waive any negative feeling, emotion or desire for punishment or the need to punish.

Only the brave know how to forgive … A coward never forgives or forgave anyone or anything, it is not in his nature.

Laurence Sterne

So many are so lost in their deep hatred and resentment of another, that they often fail to see this anger building and building until it becomes a deep red furnace of fire.

A monk was asked once what anger was and his response was “a punishment we give to ourselves for someone else’s fault” or over a mild drama that bears no serious consequence and shouldn’t be taken as such.

Anger Is A Passion Of The Mind!

Anger burns and burns and under magnetic inference is seen to burn cells and tissues of the body creating a state of sub health or disease in the body that over time requires medical attention or could fatally lead to death.

Mostly our perceived slights has to do with another person, we conclude that they have hurt us, judged us unfairly, criticized us, mocked us, abused us, ridiculed us and made us feel small and powerless.

We therefore develop this resentment and anger towards this person or persons over this perceived slights on us and we become so blinded by our deep intense emotions that we fail to look carefully and deeper to truly understand what the situation really is.

There is a popular saying “You attract what you really are and not what you want” this is really applicable in this case and if we take a moment to step back and look more critically then we will realize that “Nothing happens by chance”.

Life Happens For You!

Everything happens for a reason and for something to be started or resolved and if we believe that this is the case, then we will come to an understanding that when someone hurts us it’s because we had hurt them in the past consciously or unconsciously.

Every act we do creates a debt or credit of some form or the other and at the right time, they come up for review or for this “debts” especially to be settled and that involves the rough patches that come from attitude and behaviour that the other person sends your way.

When we realize that there are no victims anywhere and that the victim mentality only keeps one stranded in a lower state of vibration that isn’t good nor productive for anyone in the long run.

When we realize that everything that happens to us is what we have drawn into our experience and nothing that happens to us without us having drawn it into our experience, we can learn not to take these things personally and realize that the other person is only subconsciously acting out our command.

Yes! Our Command!

Whether you are conscious or unconscious of your thoughts, words and deeds, the effects and consequences are there for you to experience and no-one, I repeat no-one will bear the consequences or take over the responsibility for what we do or have done.

When we understand this, we realize that forgiveness then isn’t really or necessarily for the other person but for us as we realize that we are the catalyst, the cause that have set things in motion that resulted in the situation, experience or event that has angered or annoyed us.

We come to a conscious understanding that we are the ones that have brought the situation upon ourselves by virtue of our attitude and behaviour, and at the same time can bring an end to the situation by a simple change in attitude and behaviour.

Like From:

Negative to Positive

Hot to Cold

Lower consciousness to Higher consciousness

Hate to love

Unforgiveness to forgiveness

Impurity to purity

You get the general idea!

So forgiveness and forgiving here means forgiveness for yourself and forgiving yourself for whatever slight, embarrassment, humiliation, disappointment you may suffer at the hands of others, it isn’t about them, it’s about you.

The lesson isn’t for them to learn but for you to learn and they are simple teachers in the school of life who you have set in place to help you learn the reality of life whether harsh or not.

So forgiveness is for you to release yourself from the emotional trauma and move forward into freedom and greatness, realizing the other person is just a magnificent being like you who has come to help you heal and realize your true greatness.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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