Your Tears And Sorrow Brings Your Healing! 

  When you see someone overcome with pain and grief usually in great sorrow, stressed and in tears, you find a divine being in the great lesson of life who is lost but is finding the way back home to the great source of all life.

Ironical isn’t it?

But if you truly look at it from an angle of 360 degrees or stepping back to take a closer and more objective look, you see that it’s actually a blessing in disguise and has come to teach you love and appreciation through the gift and blessing of healing that accompanies this period of sorrow and tears.

Tears Bring Enlightenment!

If the conditions that brought such pain and grief weren’t there or visible right then, how many people would even understand who and what they are.

How many would even take the time to sometimes stop in the middle of their busy life and schedules and even wonder about life’s golden questions:

1. Who am i

2. Why am I here

3. Where do I go from here

4. What lies beyond death

5. Where do I go when I die

6. Is this daily grind all there is to life

So many questions yet the answers are far and in between and still yet elude so many as they live their day in the throes of the great illusion of daily life:

1. Work

2. Family

3. Vacation

4. And more work

How many have taken the time out to take a closer look at the world to understand its mechanics and the system of order which is so intrinsically woven into the fiber of life.

What Is Life!

That nature is a wonder yet a glorious beauty and an even greater blessing when you overtaking by pain and grief and cannot do all the mundane and simple things you did before.

Now life looks so bleak and you begin to really ask those questions you should have asked at the very beginning.

You envy healthy and happy ones who seem to have their life together wondering why your life cannot be like theirs and why you are in that situation or with that condition.

Lamentation Doesn’t Help You!

Some would lament their conditions with tales of woe and some others would readily point accusing fingers at others as the source of their predicament and calamity.

They simply refuse to take responsibility for their condition and situation.

They are simply blind to the reason why they are there and oblivious to how easily they can remedy their plight and change their life’s situation to that of joy and happiness.

The Remedy Is So Simple And A Click From Their Noses!

Gratitude and love is the simple and down to earth remedy that they need to once again bring themselves to harmony, sound health and vitality.

Remember that “abundance flourishes in a grateful heart”

A grateful heart encompasses joy, happiness, serenity of mind and heart, peace and tranquility and all the higher vibrations associated with love.

Yet most times all it takes tears and sorrow to bring us back into the harmonious state of love and gratitude, which is the true state of all divine beings and creations of the divine source of all life.

There Is A Higher Force At Work!

Sometimes the higher force watches over you like a protective parent that must discipline you in a strict but loving way, so that you can learn from your mistakes and becomes stronger and wiser.

But it must let you fall down and scrape you knees and shed a few tears hence the pain and grief, but it will only force you to take a step back and take a closer look at the situation properly.

That when you will discover that you went amiss and see clearly what you did wrong and how.

But will you have attributed it to the loving parent who though watching over you decided to keep a safe distance behind you but let you learn lovingly.

In order to truly understand what, how and why things happen, you have to take a closer look and that comes mostly by lessons of pain and grief.

What else can make you stop in your tracks, take a step back and really re-access your life and happening around you.

Tears And Sorrow Will Help You Slow Down And Truly See Life!

Yet if you can but take a moment to really connect, truly connect with your true divine nature that loving depth that you can tune to anything only if you are aware of it and tuned into it.

No matter what you are going through or whatever is bringing the pain and grief can be overcome or made to vanish within the twinkle of an eye with gratitude and love.

It softens the hardened core of your mind and flushes it with such peace and joy that you are filled with awe and wonder.

Tears fill your eyes as you realize how you had gone astray and how you can easily go back into fine tuning of the higher vibrations.

You suddenly find the strength to go on with life because now you are seeing life from the viewpoint of the whole and not the pieces that the mind is used to.

You Can See The Narratives Of The Mind And How Wrong The Premise Can Be!

You can now see how the ever protective parent had ever been there to keep you loved and protected and how love is your vital connection to this great source of all life.

You can now from the safe and loving bosom of this source where you are now connected to, see how the pain and grief had actually brought you to that stand point of truly knowing yourself.

Not only knowing yourself but recognizing yourself and being yourself.

If the ever protective parent hadn’t let you go into the pain and grief, would you have come into this great understanding of life and why things are the way they are.

Would you have been able to see and understand the mind and its narratives and how the mind loves to blow things out of proportion.

The Mind Creates Your Reality!

How the mind loves to hold down on old narratives and how it doesn’t like change.

How the mind creates the illusion of the pain and grief, whereas it’s only the lessons required to bring you into the greater understanding of who and what you really are.

In the end, you can now see that pain and grief are only but life’s lessons of love to being you into the understanding of gratitude and love.

Now you can release yourself from the illusions of pain and grief and happily brace yourself to see a brand new day and brand new life.

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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