Your Wound Is The Point Of Your Healing Yourself!

Everyone talks about the inner child and being wounded, how others are responsible for their state of health and life and hence their condition but none talks about healing themselves only about others needing healing.

For every wound you have in your mental and emotional psyche, it’s imperative to look within to find the answers instead of looking outside and pointing accusing fingers at others.

Other people aren’t responsible for your wound – you are!

They are just vehicles and channels for you to discover where you are erring and where you are mostly doing well and most importantly to discover who and what you are – a magnificent being more powerful than you can ever know or imagine and are totally responsible for everything happening in your life and reality.

How to Heal the Wounds in Your Heart!

In each of us, there is a young and unhappy suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma in one form or another and for many in so many forms one after the other.

 

Protect And Defend Yourself!

To protect and defend ourselves against future suffering, we often try to forget those painful times or suppress them totally so that they never come up again.

 

Every time we are in touch with the experience of suffering or trauma, we believe we can’t bear it at all and we stuff our feelings and memories deep down in our unconscious mind and the ever faithful and subconscious mind like the over protective doting parent, keeps it stored away from conscious memory so you don’t recall or remember the experience.

 

It may be that we haven’t dared to face this child for many decades so the conscious memory is submerged and locked up until such a time that we are bold enough or seek answers to the riddle and challenges of life and are ready to confront the past.

 

But just because we may have ignored the child doesn’t mean she or he isn’t there again or doesn’t even exist in the first instance.

Acknowledge Your Wounded Self!

The wounded child or part of yourself is always there, trying to get your attention. The child says, “I’m here. I’m here”. You can’t avoid me. You can’t run away from me.”

You must see me and dare to face me and work through me no matter what because I carry an important lesson and blessing for your life and existence.

I am the path to finding out who and what you truly are and knowing your true essence and divinity but you must face your fears and conquer it first.

We want to end your suffering by sending this child to a place deep within us and staying as far away as possible. But running away doesn’t end your suffering; it only prolongs it.

The wounded child only asks for care, love and understanding, but you do the opposite.

You run away because you are afraid of suffering. The block of pain and sorrow in you feels overwhelming.

Even if you have the time and patience, you don’t come home to yourself. You try to keep yourself constantly entertained – watching television or movies, socializing or using alcohol or drugs — (substance abuse in most cases) because you don’t want to experience that suffering all over again.

So you think or believe that if you are busy locked up in other things and can’t remember your pain, it will go away and you don’t have to deal with nit ever again or anymore.

The Wounded Child/Part Is In Each Cell Of Your Body!

There is no cell of your body that does not have that wounded child in it. You don’t have to look far into the past for that child.

 

You only have to look deeply and you will be in touch with that part. The suffering of that wounded child/part of you is lying inside you, right now in the present moment.

 

Seek and find it!

 

We Each Have An Inner Child Inside Us Whom You Must Acknowledge, Embrace And Love!

But just as the suffering is present in every cell of your body, so are the seeds of awakened understanding, higher consciousness and awareness and happiness handed down to you from the divine force and source of all creation, it sustains all life.

You just have to use these divine gifts, tools and talents divinely gifted to you to move ahead in your spiritual unfoldment.

You have a lamp inside of you – which is pure light and love, the lamp of mindfulness, which you can light anytime.

The oil of that lamp is your breathing and existence, your steps, and your peaceful and radiantly happy smile.

You have to light up that lamp of mindfulness and awareness of your true essence and divinity so it’s light will shine out and the darkness will dissipate.

Your practice/mission in life is to light up that lamp!

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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