How Unwillingness To Confront An Issue Can Kill You!

This is tantamount to living a life of fear and dread so much so that this fear can actually control your mindset and the body’s mechanism, and overtime lead to disease, malady and eventually death when not handled.

Your thoughts whether you realize it or not are so powerful and on that premise can be either constructive or destructive because you are a powerful magnificent being.

Thoughts are things!

They are actually powerful electromagnetic energy that forms around you and that creates this outer world that is your reality moment by moment whether you are conscious of it or not.

It really is that simple!

How conscious are you really of what thoughts fly through your mind at any given moment or moment to moment?

How conscious are you whether what you are thinking is constructive or destructive?

Positive or negative?

Powerful or degrading?

It all depends on your state of consciousness at that given moment and from moment.

On the other hand, when you are in a state of fear irrespective of the outer circumstances of your life and are not accepting of whatever life throws at you, you believe that people are after you and want your downfall, you have simply forgotten that life with all its challenges and problems is a school to train you to be a better person and recognize the spiritual being that you are.

Is that not a great blessing in of itself.

You now see life as the source of great punishment and unfairness, everyone and everything around you is an enemy and out to get you and destroy you.

You would prefer to be ready for them when they come rather than face the situation or circumstances and to try to understand what is going on.

If there is a reason why life is happening to you the way it is (there usually is a valid one) and what the lesson inherent might be.

You find that in this state, things at first may not be as you want it to be but that gradually everything seems to suddenly fall in place and you now seem to be able to see answers where there was none a moment ago only if you decide to truly look at the situation critically.

Rather than lament at your situation or circumstances and conclude in the negative thereby stirring up a whole current of ‘negative storm’ because you are seeing only the illusion.

You ask yourself some real questions about how and why you have suddenly found yourself in this situation of sorrow and heartache and how to get out of it.

You will begin to understand that your trouble started when your thoughts and thinking patterns and habits took a nose dive for the worse.

When you started to imagine all the worst case scenarios.

Everything that can possibly happen to you and you only paint a dismal alarming scenario.

You become unhappy instantly and just like that, move from the high state of vibration you were in before to a low state and as you continue on the destructive path, you find your mind creating more and more destructive images and possible outcomes.

You suddenly find you become very unhappy and bothered even angry.

Anxiety, worry and stress eventually set in.

You forget that everything that is happening to you was meant to happen exactly as it is or it won’t have happened – period.

Rather you create heartache and sorrow for yourself with your destructive thoughts and tendencies when you were supposed to understand the situation and the lesson inherent and work through it.

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

Remember if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:

francherbalandmakeover@gmail.com

+234 9035143577

+234 8026634753

 

Or chat me up on WhatsApp on:

+234 9035143577

+234 8026634753

You can join us on our Facebook page and group @francherbal

You can message us on WhatsApp at https://wa.me/message/QTKUXHPZ3GDJJ1

Or on twitter @franc-herbal