Trauma Only Brings Out The Truth Locked Up Inside You: Reveals The truth Hidden Within!

The mind is a habit mind and as such will stick to its narratives and conclusions irrespective of what is available before it. It doesn’t care for the truth or the evidence before it.

Trauma therefore is a gift to the person involved to see what the person cannot see otherwise or even isn’t aware of.

It carries simultaneously a lesson (for a reason and for a season) and a blessing (the change of consciousness which comes simultaneously when you understand the lesson in front of you).

But if you dwell in pain, misery and frustration seeing only the pain, then how can you see the lesson bring brought to you time and time again which you refuse to pay attention to because you were drowning in self-inflicted misery.

You are so set in your mind and you have given over power of your life and reality over to the mind allowing it to run its narratives and play.

It is very resistant to change, I repeat it is very resistant to change and would fight tooth and nail not to change its narratives and conclusions but rather to play it out again and again.

Why you ask?

Because this is where it is very comfortable and would rather stick it out here.

For as long as you give the control of your life, issues, problems and challenges to the mind, you will remain in a rut and only taking back control and facing that which you feared the most and taking it head-on can save the day.

If after sometime you really get to that point where you are tired of it all and decide you want a change and you want things to be different, all you have to do is create the change and be the change toy desire and need.

How you may ask?

Simple – by transformation.

Transformation means changing the narratives of your reality and your life into something you would rather have and want, it means that you have to wrestle back control of your life from your mind and its barrage of constant negativity and gloom to your dream of joy and ecstasy.

Transformation means totally changing the story of your life by taking responsibility for all that has happened in your life whether you are conscious of it or not.

It means facing your greatest fear but taking the plunge and taking that bold step forward to change the narratives of your reality.

It means going from negative and negativity to positive and positivity. From sorrow, Anguish and pain to gratitude, love and joy.

As soon as you take that bold step forward and have faced the fear you dreaded all along and have decided to run with it, your creative faculty will open up and you can now see and view everything in your life from a whole point and not from parts.

You can now see everything totally outlined for you, where before you saw no way out, now you see how to maneuver as the solution and answer is right there in front of you.

For some people on the other hand, it takes battling to come out of some serious health conditions and challenges top get them to this point. Examples include:

1. Depression

2. Heart attacks and condition

3. Angina

4. Diabetes

5. Hemiplegia

6. Hypertension

7. Hypotension

8. Stroke

And a host of others too numerous to mention, but I do believe you understand where I am coming from and where I am headed.

In this grave condition where their refusal to love themselves, face their fears, feel it and conquer it had led them to this grave condition, they seem to be at that point in life where you are either winning or losing in the game of life.

Unfortunately they are at the losing point and must decide if they want to live and save themselves or totally give up on life and die.

It is at this point that most decide they don’t want to die yet because they either still love their loves ones and life itself or suddenly awaken to so many beautiful and great things they still wish to accomplish in life.

Or they suddenly realize that death is too ominous for them and scares them silly and they would do anything and everything to survive and get back on their feet, even if it means facing the monster in the closet.

Sadly for some others, they simply don’t want the responsibility of facing their mistakes and errors and choose death because they think they can run away from their mistakes and the responsibility of correcting it and resolving the whole issue and problems.

How wrong can they be!

Death is not the end of existence, its only but one of many.

If they had chosen the gift of life so given and cherished it with gratitude and love, they would have faced their problems and challenges bravely and squarely, they would have come to see and realize that it wasn’t as ominous as they had thought it was.

They would have seen that all they needed was to catch the lesson in the challenge and problem and change that part of themselves creating it and that’s how everything would have dissolved and they would have realized that there was no cause for panic at all.

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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