With Every Crisis Comes A Choice – Accept Or Resist It!

Why are people so afraid of problems, issues and challenges and yet in these situations are the greatest blessings of all times – the opportunity to rediscover and find yourself and your true essence.

When we understand the above statement, truly understand to the deepest level then we will come to the realization that everything that comes to us is for our own good – our growth and development.

We will realize that everything that happen to us carries a lesson and a blessing (the blessing being inherent in a change of consciousness and therefore a new you).

Whatever happens to us is definitely meant to happen because were it to be otherwise, it wouldn’t have happened or occurred in the first place.

When you begin to see the divine in all things and the divine nature of all, you will begin to understand that there is no outside world exclusive of you and that all around you is totally you.

You have attracted everything into your life and into your world whether you realize it or not and whether you understand or believe it, it is what it is and is evident all around you.

When things go wrong as they usually do and is to be expected (don’t kid yourself otherwise), it pays to take a step back and review what’s happening in your life in order to understand where and why you have erred.

Oh yes, you have erred!

Remember that life is a school and when you are in good standing then everything is all rosy and happy but when you are in the red and bad standing, then it’s all sorrow, worry and anxiety and your blood pressure is off the roof.

To many times our troubles and heartache stem out of ignorance of divine law which governs the world we live in and runs it smoothly.

For example, people think you can cheat another or steal from another and lie your way through in the court rooms here and they happily go home relaxed in how smart they are, then along the line comes unexplainable tragedies and issues.

For some its one loss or the other and for others, it takes a totally different outcome but they all borne down to one thing, there is something wrong somewhere.

The universal law of nature that is obeyed by all life and all creations whether they are aware of it or not is in full swing and will demand compensation for a slight or a wrong.

If you cheat another, you will be cheated upon!

If you deceive another, you will be deceived!

If you lie to another, you will be lied to!

And same for everything you do whether good or bad.

If you give to another, you shall receive in kind!

So when life hits you or when it hits back at you for one thing or the other, the onus is on you how you want to react to what’s before you.

Do you accept realizing that nothing comes to you except that which you have earned and as such, embrace and work through what’s before you to understand it and resolve it?

Do you resist what’s before you, lamenting and complaining that life is so unfair to you and people are after you gallantly playing the role of the victim and thereby refusing to surrender to what’s before you.

The mere notion of resistance will only make things worse because everything in your life you have attracted and cannot accept it and so your crisis only worsens until you finally succumb and surrender to it.

Then the process of healing and resolving your issues and challenges can start and you are on your way out of the situation.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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