Nothing Other People Do Or Say Is Because of You As They Are Working Through Their Own Issues: So Don’t Take things Personally!
Does it even cross our minds to look deeper at the other
person’s behaviour and attitude to understand the cause or reason for such in
the first place?
Especially if it’s out of character for the other person.
So many times we are so lost in our issues and situations
of life especially when life throws one challenge after another at us, that we
forget that other people are going through their own challenges too.
Life is after all a school ground!
Some people can handle their challenges, trials and
tribulations very well and are courageous as they face it and work through it
to bring balance into their life.
Some others cannot handle their own life’s challenges,
trials and tribulations and for some it’s even much worse for yet some people
as they are knocked out flat and defeated even before they are started.
They are so overtaken by their mind and its narratives
that they simply cannot see through the illusion played out by their minds.
They are so lost in the drama and narratives that they
totally believe it’s their play and act accordingly.
They show up to those handling their issues and
challenges as people who are so fearful, angry and obsessed with lamentation
and complain.
Except they take a step back to review what’s happening
to them especially why they are displaying the various negative emotions and
vibes that they are emitting, they cannot see the light at the end of the
tunnel and will forever be lost down the rabbit hole.
Its gloomy and dreary I know that!
They are like the Ostrich which has stuck its head in the
sand and is refusing to come out and look around it again.
It simply refuses to face reality and would rather stay
stuck in the emotions that run its narratives and create the experiences and
sequence of life events that unfold towards his fears.
This people will always lament and complain and would
prefer to keep doing so and when you attempt to help them see through the
illusions of their minds, they would rather prefer to remains stuck in their minds
because it’s easy to give power to the mind.
They prefer to have something else take responsibility
while they take the back burner and just play second fiddle and ride along and
see as it goes.
The mind ever happy to protect you from the “supposed enemy
and threat to life”, would gladly continue to run its narratives and create
scene after scene and act after act.
All the while portraying the ever faithful friend and
ally wanting only to keep you safe and sound, will magnify these issues and
problems until you lost in the mirage, getting deeper and deeper in the tangles
of the illusion.
When a conscious person meets people like those above,
you have to be compassionate enough to understand that they are going through
their “dark night of soul” and will eventually figure it out.
They will ultimately make their way out of the depth of
gloom and despair as they see the light that eventually brings them out as they
face and work their way through their issues and problems.
No matter how rude, uncouth, terrible and all the other
negative traits they display and act out, you as a conscious being and
understanding their plight, must have compassion for their state and condition
at that moment.
You will realize that they are on their own path with
their issues just like everyone else but they are not able at the moment, to
bring their minds and its activities under control or more accurately - tame
the mind and refuse to run its acts and narratives.
They will eventually be able to do so and come into the
same conscious state as you are in and be better and do better than they are
doing at the moment.
But right now, we got to show them some love and be kind
and compassionate.
It gets better and better!
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
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+234 9035143577
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