Don’t Live Inside Your Head: Rather Live In Your Heart!

Life with all its intricate patterns and webs of deceit and illusion that we are so quick to fall into, lost in our head and the narratives and the play of the mind yet still life is a blessing.

It rather depends on where you actually decide to live and vibrate from – the head or the heart.

When You Live In Your Head

When you live in your head, you become explosive, reacting to every simple and complicated things and events, circumstances and challenges, troubles and problems like a bull running after the typical red cloth.

The bull is so incensed that it would go after the red cloth trying to bring it down without stopping for a moment, to actually consider what it was doing there or who was trying it as it keeps moving further and further away from it whenever it charges after it.

Typical of a bull right!

The same thing typically happens for those operating from their head, they face and charge after troubles and problems, issues and challenges like demons that must be conquered at all cost.

They don’t understand that it’s actually a lesson for a season and definitely for a reason.

If they do they would relax like a smart intelligent bull that gently sniffs the air and watches the red cloth critically, trying to see the man for reason for it appearing before it.

Because of this, it can finally predict how the knock it off and out of his path and victory is assured at the end of the day.

Moreover it finally comes to the understanding that it was just placed in front of it and had no power whatsoever to stop it

When You Live In Your Heart

This is a different kettle of fish entirely!

You become a critical thinker, analyst and strategist!

When you live in your heart, you become less explosive and reactive or even not at all, you simply don’t react to every simple and complicated things and events, circumstances and challenges, troubles and problems like a bull running after the typical red cloth.

The bull is so incensed that it would go after the red cloth trying to bring it down without stopping for a moment, to actually consider what it was doing there or who was trying it as it keeps moving further and further away from it whenever it charges after it.

You are the intelligent one who stops for a moment to question:

1. What was in front of you

2. Why it was in front of you

3. What lessons it had come to impact in your life

4. The hidden blessing it carries (they always do)

5. The totality of it all

You realize that nothing happens without a reason and whatever is happening in your life at the present moment is for your own good.

You have come to realize that everything that happens at any given moment and in whatever circumstances and situation is meant to happen exactly as it did, if not it wouldn’t happen at all.

Nothing is a mistake!

There is divine law and order in the grand scheme of life!

Putting It All Together

By now, you can see the advantages and obvious disadvantages of operating from either the head or the heart.

Remember that the heart is the core center of your true self and being and radiates only the highest frequency of gratitude for the gift of life, love and light.

Life with all its ups and downs makes us so conscious of our environment that if we aren’t care and stay focused on our high state of light and love and vibrating on such at all times, we can easily get sucked into the myriad of the illusions of life.

When we tune into life and allow the mind and its attendant narratives and play to define us, we switch off from the heart center of light and love to that of the head of agitation, reaction and the negativity that gets you all wrapped up in the extremes.

The choice my friend is yours to make, do you live in your head or in your heart?

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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