Building Resilience Is The Key To Overcoming Hardship In Life!
Resilience is the mental (mind control) ability to
recover quickly from malady, illness, disorder and misfortune getting back to
the wholesome state of good health and bliss.
People would give up at the mere presence or springing up
of problems, challenges or situations in their lives without giving a thought
to or pausing for a moment to think that these things are there for a reason
and they need to ask themselves:
· Why
is this happening to me
· What
is this trying to teach me
· Where
am I going wrong in my life
· What
lesson am I still not getting thereby repeating the same mistakes over and over
again.
Building Resilience:
It’s so
easy to give up easily when confronted with what seems like insurmountable
challenges and problems and the recourse is to give up.
But
when we take a breather or a moment to look at it again, stepping back and
looking from the 360 degree vantage point, we will be shocked to discover the
illusion in what seems to be a mystery.
The
solution already exists in the problem, all you have to do is take a step take
to critically look at and address the problem and lo and behold, everything
will become crystal clear to you – the reason for the problem or challenge
being experienced (there is always a lesson in every situation and
circumstances that we go through).
When
that happens then you will clearly see the answer that had been unclear to you
or some would believe hidden from them but that’s where they are wrong because
it had always been there, right in front of them to see but they have been
oblivious to it all along.
Why are people so afraid of change? Say the word to a
group of people like in a seminar, conference, class, I mean a gathering of
people and you can see their heart palpitations and nervousness like something
bad is about to happen.
You are afraid to surrender and embrace change because
you don’t want to lose control, but you never had control all you ever had was
fear and anxiety, both causing the fear to embrace change and a new way of
seeing things.
Why do people associate or equate change with something
to fear or fear of the unknown, yet the unknown holds so much treasure and
promise if only we can embrace it and welcome it gladly with open arms.
Many have been afraid of changes in their lives but upon
accepting and embracing it has come to discover that it was a great source of
blessing and miracle in their lives.
For some it has brought about great healing that for so
long, they had battled to find and end their challenges and problems but all to
no avail.
For others it has opened their sense of being and allowed
them to discover the truth about who there are at the core of their beingness,
they have allowed themselves to shed the fear that had held them captive for so
long.
As soon as they had shed the fear or the need to fear
what they do not know nor understand, they had come to such peace and joy as
they embraced their true divinity and found only bliss there.
This when they developed resilience they needed to
overcome the present challenge as they learned to be strong, fearless and work
through their issues by embracing this hardship before them.
Their embrace only brought greater understanding and
wisdom that they would never had nor dreamt of coming though did they hold unto
the fear of the unknown.
Why do you fear the unknown so much?
Why do you fear what you don’t know nor understand?
Yet the answer or solution lies in not resisting this
unknown and the tandem change that consequently comes with it, but totally and
wholesomely embracing this change and keying in into this great gift of the
divine source.
Many have been cured of “incurable diseases and
disorders, malady and ailment” as soon as they chose to embrace this condition
and seek to understand it and why it is happening to them and in their lives.
There is always a spiritual lesson in ever ailment,
malady, disease, disorder or conditions that assail the body and forces you to
take a closer look at your life, especially at your habits and conditionings.
A lot of people don’t understand that it is our habits
that creates the behaviour and attitudes that are responsible for our lot in
life.
Yet at any given opportunity they would rather dodge
change than have to do something differently than the way the subconscious mind
wants to do it.
If you recall, you would remember that the subconscious
is a “habit mind” that is resistant and in some cases violently resistant to
change and would do anything and everything to keep you attuned to the ways it is
used to.
Even though these old ways are outdated and no longer
serve you, it will argue and try to convince you how it pays you better since
it is the path you are accustomed to.
It wouldn’t show how this same path or course of action
in the past had yielded nothing or no tangible results for you.
Yet the answer to changing your life by overcoming
hardship is by building resilience, especially if you are dissatisfied and not
happy with your life is through this same change.
I would love to hear from
you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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