Our Darkest Moments Brings The Light: Our pain is where the light enters and heals you.
But if and when we relax and take a step back to review
things or the situation or circumstance in question, we would see how
everything that has happened to us, is happening to us and will happen to us is
deeply rooted inside our psyche and the deepest part of our selves.
When we point a finger out (the index finger) in front of
us, if we pay attention we will discover that all the other fingers are
pointing right back at us.
Isn’t that ironical!
If you point at another person, situation or event as the
source of your pain or misery, you have your other fingers pointing right back
at you and telling you to take a more critical and direct look inward to find
the truth and the answer to who is truly responsible for your misery or pain.
The answer though always so hard to bear and swallow is
You!
As above so below!
As within so without!
You create your very existence by the fact of your true
nature and existence.
We forget so easily and so soon that we aren’t this body
and neither are we our thoughts and emotions which we consciously or
subconsciously and also unconsciously allow to rule and direct the path of our
lives and reality and hence the ultimate result: Pain
Its so easy to run off to the doctor to get pills and
medications to counter your pain and misery as your give over control to the
other – the doctors.
You forget so soon that we are each responsible for our
very existence and that whatever is visible in our lives and reality, whether
we like to accept it or not, we have created.
There is no neighbour somewhere lurking in the dark and
plotting your downfall except the thought and feeling that you have created by
your imagination of it being existent and voila – it’s really there.
When we understand what life truly is then we understand
that we didn’t come to this life and haven’t been given this blessing of a gift
of this lifetime to come and waste it on mundane and useless existence.
This so precious and graceful gift of life is to polish
you to be the greatest you have ever been. To come to the realization of who
and what you truly are –
1. A
Spark of God
2. A
Divine Being
3. The
Universe
4. The
Greatest Treasure of all.
We spend this life being lost in the great illusion of time
and existence and this keeps us trapped in the world of daily living and
drudgery:
1. You
wake up every morning
2. Do
your chores
3. Head
out to work or kids to school
4. Back
home later with family activities and chores
5. Bedtime
and sleep
This is the routine of existence on a daily basis and
most people are so caught up in it they do not understand life and do not see
this magnificence called life as it passes them by.
They become so disgruntled and unhappy looking to someone
and something outside of themselves as the culprit and never at themselves.
Oh how easy it is to point accusing fingers at others and
never at ourselves.
If we would but look again and this time more critically
with an open mind and less judgmentally, we would see that the source of the
pain is within us.
We would see that our resistance to certain lessons and
trainings in life bring pain and misery.
What you resist persist!
What you fight grows!
What you avoid only stays with you!
When we calmly embrace that which is before us, we see
the whole of life spread forth is front of us and see how blinded and misguided
we have been our whole lives.
We see how fighting what’s before us only makes the pain
and misery grow worse and how when we finally relax and take it on working
through the pain and challenges/problems, we actually begin to grow and expand
and our divine gifts and talents hidden all these while begins to show forth.
Most times, this is all it takes to find out your mission
for this lifetime or why you are here.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as
who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, it’s better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
francherbalandmakeover@gmail.com
+234 9035143577
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