Whatever Happens Is Meant To Happen: There is nothing you can do otherwise.
They believe that somebody else had set the course of
their lifetime in a totally different direction than where they are and would
move heaven and hell to have it otherwise.
They forget the golden rule of all ages:
What you resist persists!
It doesn’t occur to them at that moment and for some the
rest of their lives that where they are is precisely where they are meant to be
and not somewhere else.
They don’t realize that the present moment and condition
of life is a blessing that has come to them to help them understand themselves
better.
That the condition has come to teach them something about
themselves that they are either not aware of or are stubbornly and ignorantly
refusing to face, deal with and work through.
We have so many in conditions of pain, anxiety, worry and
stress and they get so caught up in their states and are so unhappy they don’t
see the bigger picture at all.
I will illustrate with a few examples:
There is Sarah who is such a sweet and beautiful young
lady, vibrant and full of life and most envy her so.
She has the knack of always picking the wrong guy and
having her heart broken into a million pieces time and time again.
She keeps wondering why as she cries her eyes out time
and again and she believes that maybe she is “cursed and doomed to be single
for life”
She tries so hard to change the situation instead of
trying to understand why this is happening to her and the lessons inherent in
it.
If she would take a step back and critically review her
situation, she would question what in her beliefs and attitudes that is making
her attract these kinds of guys.
The solution to the problem is inside the problem and not
outside of herself and her environment.
She has to change something in herself that was sabotaging
her!
The next case is Barry!
Barry is an unbelievable hunk of a guy that has all the
ladies swooning and falling at his feet.
Meredith was so happy and absolutely on top of the moon
when he chose her over all the other ladies and she couldn’t believe her
incredible luck.
A few months into their marriage the cracks starts to
appear and the bubble bursts and she realized her fairytale life was a mirage.
It started with the hitting as Barry would strike her at
the least provocation and would beat her black and blue for no reason at all.
It hit her long and hard that this is the same world that
she had tried so hard to run away from and now her nightmare was back to hunt
her.
She didn’t seem to have made it far and now it’s here
staring at her straight in the face.
Her childhood was one of the same and the same has
repeated in her marriage.
She and Barry had attracted each other because of what is
inside of each and they both have to change these beliefs, attitudes that are
keeping her in that state.
Once she does that and heal herself, everything around
her would change and she will be able to attract better.
So you see, when things happen there are meant to happen
and the onus is on us to look critically and deeply within to understand the
blessings and lessons inherent.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
francherbalandmakeover@gmail.com
+234 9035143577
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