We Seek On The Outside What We Are On The Inside
This delusion or permit me to label it a great illusion
has been the driving force of so many that they have lost themselves in this,
they totally believe that it is who and what they seek that brings the
fulfilment they desperately seek.
They are so caught up in this illusion and play acting
that they forget who and what they are or can do and accomplish simply by
focusing their attention to the right channel.
They are so engrossed in this play acting and role
playing that they believe it’s the ultimate fulfilment of their lives and
ambitions especially the females.
They love and fall and love even more even when so many
are not getting loved back in return for their love and sacrifice.
But they continue loving and giving of themselves
believing that it is the way and that’s the right thing to do.
Even more so when society has imposed on them that the
ultimate fulfilment for females are:
1. Marriage
via finding the right man or maybe any man will do as long as they get married.
2. Family as they give up a lot when the kids
start coming in order to bring balance and harmony into their lives.
Many a times a lot of females have come to that point
where they would just let go and live for themselves but family and friends
bring them back to order with the gentle reminder of what others and the
society at large would think of their actions.
Alas, they are forced to continue with the role playing
and acting even though at the core of their being, it isn’t who they are and
what they desire at all.
This same phenomenon applies to men who are forced
against their will and direction in life to tow the marriage line and even when
it is evident that they aren’t ready for it.
Again like in the case of the females above, they must
tow the line and for most hope to find the elusive that they hope and believe
that another outside of themselves will give them to bring fulfilment and
happiness into their lives.
Is it any wonder then they there are many males and
females who are so disgruntled with their lives that they have become robotic
zombies, just waltzing through life without actually living life.
They have lost all sense of who they are and see life as
being unfair and hard, bad unforgiving dark place to live.
They have totally lost all sense of their greatness and
who they really are as society keeps pushing at them with more and more rules
and regulation to keep them in check and control the population.
What they seek on the outside and they cannot find is
because it is already within them and that’s the only place they can ever and
truly find happiness and fulfillment.
Joy is a state of consciousness and being!
Happiness is a state of consciousness and
being!
Peace is a state of consciousness and being!
Fulfilment is a state of consciousness and
being!
Bliss is a state of consciousness and being!
Love is a state of consciousness and being!
They all start and emanate from within to the
without and not the other way round.
Remember!
As within so without!
As above so below!
So when you seek any of the above, it is you
seeking that which you already are and which can ONLY be found within.
Take a look around you and observe the
general population for a few minutes and for a few days and you will observe
the following:
Most people go through life living the same
routines and schedules everyday robotically not even realizing what they are
doing.
The people above are usually unhappy people
who find no joy and fulfillment even when they have everything working out for
them.
That the rich and influential in the society
are not necessarily happy nor the happiest people as most people erroneously
believe that “money brings happiness”.
While on the other spectrum are people who
simply live their lives and can change their routines and schedules as being
directed from within.
They know who they are at the core of
themselves and as such the society doesn’t drive nor control them.
They may not even be wealthy nor financially
well off, some are poor and destutes on the street while some are even going
through hard times and unbelievable hardship.
They all have one thing in common and that’s
knowing who and what they are at the core of themselves and that every
situation, circumstances and events in their lives brings a lesson as well as a
blessing.
They look to both and encompass that into
their lives knowing that nothing lasts forever as no condition is permanent and
that life with all its ups and downs is a treasure.
These are the ones who do not seek on the
outside what they are on the inside because they already know and practice it.
So my friend – which one are you?
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and
have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have questions
or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers
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