What Are You Resistant About
I guess you can say it is what it is!
So many go through problem upon problem, challenges after
challenges and issues that seem to have come out of nowhere, and always tend to
look outside of themselves for the culprit and the accused.
They are so busy pointing accusing fingers at others and
feeling so justified about it that they fail to see the other four fingers
pointing directly and at close range at them, yes you got it! They are
responsible for their problems and issues whether they are aware of this
universal fact or not.
They believe in their limited perception (you know that
perception is truth according to you and from your own vantage point and not
necessarily how others see the same situation), they believe that others or
something other than themselves are responsible for their plight in life.
They couldn’t be more wrong!
There is a popular saying and belief among people that
‘what you resist persists”. This is a fact and it is the chief factor or cause
operating in most people’s life but because they do not understand this or
believe in it, they then do not understand their plight and so blame it on
others which is so easy to do.
When they come to an understanding of this basic law of
life and existence, they can then pause to assess and reassess themselves so
that they can find the basic cause of the unpleasant situation or circumstances
in their life.
So many times. It is simply and basically a spiritual
lesson that has been long forgotten that has come due for payment or a lesson
that they simply refuse to learn, which is basically about an attitude or
behaviour that is not conducive for their spiritual growth and development.
In the past a lot of enlightened one have spoken about this
law and taught people how to solve this problem and not try to walk off it nor
walk away which you cannot do nor ignore it to your own detriment as it’s going
nowhere.
They have taught countless people that the secret to
solving this – “is simply to let it be”. Face the challenge or circumstance
that presents itself to you and learn the lesson inherent and when you have
done that, to your shock and surprise it will simply disappear and you will be
done with it.
I mean what I have said above!
Whenever a lesson present itself to be resolved, the mind
goes overdrive into fear and apprehension, you must calm the mind down and
block out its narratives and theatrics, that’s the only way you can look at the
issues at hand objectively and see it from the whole point of view rather than
the parts.
When seen from the whole point of view, your
understanding and wisdom is opened and heightened, because you are operating
from the true essence of yourself – Soul and your creative centers are in
action, now the problem lays itself out and within the problem is the solution
and you will be amazed at how simple and easy this can be.
Now you can see why you were resistant in the face place
and understand that life is a school where you have come to grow, develop and
evolve into your true essence, and as such they will be challenges and tests on
the road to that high state of awareness.
The mind on the other hand being a habit mind will try to
keep you locked in your usual habits and narratives as it is always resistant
to change, it will try to convince why staying the course is the best option
for you.
It will try to keep you locked into either the past –
depression and sadness, or the future – anxiety and worry. It cannot exist in
the present state because in the present state is peace and love and that is
where your true essence exist and where you realize who and what you are.
Can you see how everything plays out here?
So, the next time you want to complain about a situation,
circumstance, condition or a problem, take a minute to pause and reflect on
what’s happening and why you are suddenly resistant to it, instead of allowing
the situation and looking out for the lesson and blessing inherent it.
Most times because we allow our mental and emotional
reaction come too quick, we aren’t aware of the blessing in all circumstances,
situations, conditions and the likes until we pull back, calm down and look
again.
Then we can and will see the whole picture and understand
what it is and see that there wasn’t a need to resist it in the first place.
So whenever there seem to be an issue, ask yourself the
question “what are you resistant about?
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected
in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to
always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
This is all for now!
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