Circumstances Do Not Have The Final Word Or Say About The Outcome Of Our Lives: That’s Our Choice To Make
But we must be willing and ready to do the work!
So many desire a good life for themselves and their
families and would love to do whatever it takes but yet they believe in the
magic fairy tales of the old and in the aggravated illusions of most movies of
the western world.
The movies depict that you can go back in time to the
past to change some outcome events in the present time that you exist. They
forget that “the purported mistake” is actually a lesson and a blessing for you
in your immediate reality.
When you take a step back and look critically at the
events of a certain past that has brought you pain or misery or agony, then you
can see where you have erred and at that realization, comes the freedom to
change the course of events for the immediate future.
The movies also depicts that we can go ahead in time
through time travel and change the supposed outcomes of events, again it
follows same as for going back into time.
For the future to change especially for those going
through misery, agony and pain in the present moment, they must stop – take a
breather and re-access the conditions of their present reality.
For example:
Someone who is going through financial struggles and
difficulty might have the erroneous belief and assumption that that’s what they
are meant to go though and life is a struggle that they cannot get out of.
Lost in that mindset, they sink into it and are pulled
deeper and deeper into the abysmal depth of pain and depression.
What a sad story!
But wait a moment, if and when they can catch themselves
in the midst of such negative thought and instead ask themselves the two golden
questions:
1. Why
is this happening to me
2. What
is it trying to teach me or bring to my attention about my life and my choices?
Life is all about our choices and the consequences of our
choices and cannot be otherwise whether we believe it or not, it is what it is.
Our choices in life and the consequences of such choices
creates the outcome we see as our reality and when we come to the realization
of this golden rule of life, life takes on a new meaning.
Now we realize and know that whatever the reality of our
present moment we can turn it around for the better by changing our choices for
the better at this present moment.
When we do that we change the course of our lives!
Like in the case of the example above, all that is
required is a deeper look at the choices made in relation to finance and
budgeting.
You will be amazed and surprised to see where the mistake
or mistakes come from and how you have been ignorant of certain things and the
situation only arose to bring your attention to your weak points and
weaknesses.
Like in the case of a person who lacks discipline to
control spending while in a tight cash flow, the blessing and the lesson of the
situation is for that person to learn the discipline and nothing more.
Once the lesson has been learnt, then the person can go
back up more naturally and this time, the person has the discipline to make
better informed choices and decisions because they know the consequences of
such.
In relationships, it’s the same situation.
If you cannot learn to love yourself first and make
yourself number one in all engagements no matter what, then how can you expect
another to truly love you.
That is absolutely impossible!
Then you wonder why you keep attracting the same kinds of
opposite sex who do nothing but hurt you over and over again and you are at a
loss as to why this keeps happening especially when you sacrifice so much for
them and just want same back.
Take a moment to critically look at yourself and what you
are doing and I bet you will realize that you have placed the other person on a
pedestal and placed yourself on the ground.
Since you are on the ground, the other person will
automatically have no respect for you but if you turn things around, then the
other person is on the ground, the will definitely look up to you and come
chasing after you.
This system is used on parrots by their trainers to keep
them in check.
When you place yourself on a pedestal and simply love
yourself more and above all things without seeking the love from outside
yourself, then and only then can you attract same love back into your life.
Then you can now see and understand the reason for the
pain and anguish which was to help you see where you were going wrong, correct
the course of that reality and now manifest exactly what you want into your
life.
It’s that simple!
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source
to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive universe
where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it
or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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