When You Forgive You Heal: When You Let Go You Grow
Ironical isn’t it!
It’s so easy to look at another or point accusing fingers
at others and accuse them of being the source of all our heartache and trouble
and in doing so, we leave out the most important culprit: “Yourself”.
You are a law unto yourself so everything begins and ends
with you and what is happening in your inner world is creating what is
happening externally.
Over time so many people from scientists, researchers,
philosophers, priests and other enlightened ones have preached this gospel of
you being the creator of your own reality.
It was the basis of the book and movie “The Secret” by
Rhonda Byron.
When you get angry at another over the slightest things
and little inconsequential issues, your mind takes over and starts creating
your narratives and play of “being wronged”.
Your energy levels change and your vibrations moves from
a high to a low frequency which dips even lower as the narratives of the mind
goes into overdrive.
At this point, you have given over the control of
yourself and life to the mind and it gleefully will expand the narratives and
produces and eventually manifests dooms and gloom in your life.
Then you notice that nothings seems to work and that
everything goes wrong for you each day and that unfortunately it gets from bad
to worse as the day progresses.
Your heart which was filled with light and love suddenly
becomes dark and filled with so much darkness that you would choke on it if you
were to see what’s happening to you on the inside.
Over the course of time all this expanding dark negative
energy which has overtaken the positive energy begins to take a toll on the
body and before you realize what’s happening, the body is down and out.
Your health is adversely affected and you run to the
doctor for medication to relive or suppress the ailments showing but alas no
matter what medication or herbal medications taken, it seems to have no effect
on the body.
You keep getting worse as the day goes by and you begin
to wonder why the medication that worked for others didn’t work for you.
You also wonder if the doctor is competent to address the
situation or not and you may even begin to think maybe a change of doctor and
hospital is the answer.
Still at that it’s the same thing!
After changing the doctor and hospital you are still
getting worse and now you are really concerned if you are going to survive or
die and that’s when panic sets in.
But this is a good and crucial moment to review your life
and situations and when you do that objectively with no bias whatsoever, you
will find that you realize that you have been holding unto resentment, fear,
bitterness and the like and they have been responsible for your condition.
Trained experts like myself and a good host of others can
help you reach this crucial point and point you in the right direction of what
to do and how to do it.
When you do so you will see that suddenly you will start
responding to treatment and your energy levels starts to rise and your
frequency moves from negative back to positive.
Optimal health is vibrating at high positive energy and
vibration.
This is where to start heading to and you forgive
yourself and forgive others and start healing and return back to sound health
and vitality.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
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+234 9035143577
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