You Are Not Your Past: It Was A Lesson And A Blessing If Only You Can See
People seem to be depressed and unhappy either at their
lives and /or the quality for it, the environment, the press, the government
and politicians, other people (rich ones for their success and poor ones for
existing).
There seem to be countless and inexhaustible excuses to
stay unhappy and depressed with loads of excuses for being in that state or why
it’s happening to them in the first place.
There is always someone or something to blame and quite
rightly so as they will bore you to death with their long list of justification
to this effect.
They are so busy pointing accusing finger at others and
in some other cases, at one thing or the other that they fail to see that the
other four fingers are pointing right back at them.
What does that mean?
It means it’s a wakeup call to them to look again as
they, not others or the one thing or the other is absolutely responsible for
their state or condition and quite rightly their reality in life.
It’s so damn easy to just point simply at another and say
“this person is responsible for the state of my life?” “This person is the
reason for my pain and anguish?”.
Yet you are held accountable by spiritual law for
everything that’s happening in your life and therefore for the wrong and
seemingly bad choices you have made in the past.
It’s just that – a wrong choice or a bad mistake
Must you crucify yourself for the wrong choices and bad
mistakes that you have made in error, when you didn’t know any better?
Does your father in heaven crucify you for your wrong
doing?
If you believe the above statement, then you don’t
understand nor do you realize the magnificent being you are or the true essence
that is the ultimate divinity from which you spring from.
The past is nothing more than what it implies – “the
past”, it has nothing with the present moment nor you’re here and now which is
where you ultimately are in your divinity.
The ultimate reality is the realization of who you are
and what you stand for, as a being of light and love you live only in the
present moment – the here and now.
The mind is hooked unto the past and the future and that
leaves you suspended only in depression when you are held in the shackles of
the past, and anxiety when you are held in the shackles of the future.
Neither is good for your ultimate growth and development
as the mind will use that to keep you locked into the illusion of the world and
all its drama and projections.
You are so much more than that and have to remember this
always and at all times.
A mistake is simply a lesson for you to learn to make
better choices and be smarter, and not a prison sentence where you are the
accused, judge, jury and executioner and condemn yourself without a fair trial.
When you truly understand your true essence and bask in
the knowledge and delight of who you truly are, you will be quick to forgive
yourself realizing that every mistake is an opportunity to learn what you did
wrong, and therefore to make better, wiser and smarter choices in the future.
The present (here and now), the past and the future all
co-exist in the present moment here and now.
You have the opportunity to simply wipe your slate clean
and begin again on a new day whenever you make a wrong choice and a mistake.
You are a magnificent being growing and developing every
day and ultimately coming to that realization, is an awakening that you must undergo
so that you may evolve into your true self.
So when you make a mistake simply understand that you
chose wrong and you are blessed with the opportunity to make it right by
choosing again in the today.
The mistake of the past stays there – in the past.
You are not your past and you thought but an amazing and
magnificent being of light and love growing and evolving into its true and
ultimate reality.
You are a divine being!
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help
guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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