Do You Really Have To Live With That Condition Or Can You Change It
Life is a school and an opportunity to discover who you
really are at the core of yourself, your true essence. This majestic being of
such opulent light and delight.
Life can truly only be experienced in the present moment,
in the now and nothing more.
When you are angry, upset, resentful and all the other
bitter emotional responses to certain events, circumstances and situations,
then you are living in the past and are only but in the temporal manifestation
of the mind.
At this point or condition, you are only seeing these
negative images brought on by negative thoughts and fueled by negative
vibrations and emotions.
You believe you are “these things” that you see in your
mind’s eye and totally get into the drama and narratives of the mind.
You lose yourself in role playing and acting out the part
that you have assumed to be yours and have gotten so into the role, that before
you know it – it’s really you.
You hand over the control of the events, situations and
circumstances of your life to the mind whose role should be nothing more than a
tool and servant to navigate these wondrous delights of the physical world.
You at this point have taken a back seat and allowed the
mind to take charge and you are now role playing, acting out what you believe
to be your life- nothing but an illusion.
Soon you are so lost in this play of the mind so into the
role that you are playing that you lose all sense of your true identity and
wallow in self-pity and self-rejection.
Then the play unfolds and the conditions and situations
begins to expand and unravel into worse things than you could ever have
imagined and as to be expected, you sink into greater states of dejection and
depression.
The signs and symptoms soon begins to appear and your
health and sub health status starts getting bad and declining and you start to
lose it.
At this point you really need to ask yourself if it is
worth the trouble to keep living or to simply just give up and go, you decide
to seek other alternatives or other universes to live and some even get
desperately afraid of death at this juncture.
You believe that if you leave the world and its trouble
behind, then you can escape the condition that you are currently in and start
again somewhere else afresh and great hopes for better conditions and
situations.
Who do you think you are kidding?
There is no escaping the lessons of life and you only
aggravate your situation when you refuse to simply face it, work your way
through, learn the lesson inherent (every condition or situation has something
to teach you and you will know only when you look at the situation or condition
without any bias) and adjust yourself accordingly.
When you decide you don’t want to live with the condition
and would rather change it for something else then you are freed of the mind
and all its narratives and drama.
Now you come alive like a person coming out of deep
slumber into reality, you can take a step or two back and re-assess your
situation and condition properly to fully understand what and why it happened
or is happening.
At this point you are in a state of peace and calm and
the creative centers or faculties of the same mind are activated and opened and
before you know it, you can truly see beyond the condition or situation.
The whole thing suddenly becomes clear and you can
understand how it happened, now the same faculties open up to you, new and
creative ways to tackle the challenge and rectify the situation for the better.
Since you are in this state of peace and calm, your body
is effused with great health and vitality and your outlook on life totally
changes as you exude love and happiness despite the condition of your life at
that moment.
You can truly see where you have erred and what lessons
were are inherent in the condition you are in and can happily see a creative
way out or solution that’s mutually beneficial for all involved.
Now you truly can ask:
Do you really have to live with that condition or can you
change it?
And you can also answer the question yourself:
I don’t have to live in that condition as I can change
it.
That the puzzle being solved and you are happier for it.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life.
Jean
Voice Dart!
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
francherbalandmakeover@gmail.com
+234 9035143577
+234 8026634753
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