Awareness of the Way Things Truly Are!
What would you recommend to help family, loved ones and others going through a rough time
Change Of
Consciousness Is Key!
What I recommend is consciousness, they need to change their state of consciousness. Understanding and acceptance of things and total surrender to divine will.
People have to be aware of where their behavior come from and what stressors they have taken upon themselves that has caused this situation or circumstances that they find themselves in.
What stressors they continue to take on or upon themselves and which of those stressors are avoidable or can be dealt without or not even considered an option in the first place or in any way.
Which of those stressors are not avoidable and how they just have to adjust to them, but they have to do so consciously so that they know what they are getting themselves into.
In a society that stresses people so much or causes a lot of stress for its citizenry, there are no individual answers from outside of themselves. Only individual solution from deep within the creative center inside themselves.
Until people manage to change themselves first then society so that society takes a different approach to things, suffering is going to happen.
On all levels, whether individual or collective consciousness, you have to live with the way it is, even as you wish it was otherwise. You can work to make it different, but so long as we are living in the world we are living in, you have to deal with the way the world is.
What people need is “awareness”, “consciousness”, so
they can identify stressors and eliminate them when they are capable of doing
so and find ways of living with them when they can’t or try out other methods
available to them.
Emotional isolation is
a major risk factor for disease, addiction, illness, death, you have to create
conditions in their personal lives that, as much as possible, counteract the
stressors that are caused by the society that you live in, and you need to be
conscious and aware in order to do this.
Life in this society means that a lot of people are going to become traumatized or will be traumatized at some point in life bearing in mind the many and varied demands of society and modern day living.
The connection between addiction and trauma must be recognized and accepted as the ultimate cause of the person’s state of consciousness or state of acceptance of life and reality.
Denial of childhood
trauma leads to addiction in order to repress the pain!
It
is a common occurrence to see some people when they are faced with life’s usual
challenges and problems to turn to the sources of addiction listed above as a
means to escape the situation or circumstance.
They
think when they consume these toxic substances they can readily escape their
problems and by some stroke of luck, it will have vanished or be over when they
get back to their normal senses.
They
refuse to deal with their challenges or too afraid to look deeper into how and
why such is happening in their lives.
Rather
like the ostrich, they would rather bury their head in the sand than face the
challenge and work through it.
Take Responsibility
For Your Life!
Their
refusal to take responsibility for the challenge that has presented itself will
drive them into these situations that are not necessary.
The
mind is a habit mind and as such will stick to its narratives and conclusions
irrespective of what is available before it. It doesn’t care for the truth or
the evidence before it.
Trauma
therefore is a gift to the person involved to see what the person cannot see
otherwise or even isn’t aware of.
It
carries simultaneously a lesson (for a reason and for a season) and a blessing
(the change of consciousness which comes simultaneously when you understand the
lesson in front of you).
But
if you dwell in pain, misery and frustration seeing only the pain, then how can
you see the lesson bring brought to you time and time again which you refuse to
pay attention to because you were drowning in self-inflicted misery.
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns
and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing
your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
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