The Importance Of Compassion And Understanding!
Develop Compassion And
Understanding!
When you generate mindfulness, compassion and understanding
become possible and you can allow people to love you and be themselves without
judgement and criticism.
Before, you may have been suspicious of everything and everyone
but now compassion helps you relate to others and restore communication gaps in relationships
that were created.
The people around you, your family and friends, may also have a severely
wounded child inside of them. If you have managed to help yourself, you can
also help them.
When you have healed yourself,
your relationship with others become much easier than before and you find that
you can actually relate better with others without the usual friction and
negative emotions.
There’s More Peace And More Love in You!
To
understand that each is on their own path to God and therefore have their own
issues and challenges to face and resolve and they should be allowed to have
their freedom to do so.
When
we operate from a high state of consciousness, this understanding comes to us
so easily.
Because
we can see each as a spiritually evolving magnificent being of light and sound
and pure love.
That
we have our positives and negatives sides and cannot be like others as our
diversity as a culture and race makes us fundamentally the unique species that
we all are.
Recognize Divinity In All!
In
recognizing that, it becomes easier to understand people struggling to
understand their life’s troubles and plight while operating on the lower state
of consciousness.
It
becomes easier to simply love others understanding their plight from a
viewpoint of respect and understanding and letting them work it out in peace.
Then
we get to love ourselves and others more wholly, learning to forgive ourselves
and others for the mistakes we made or they made. Yet mistakes are pivotal
steps in our learning, training and education.
They
are not to be looked upon and bad only as a slight detour taken that has led
nowhere and from where the right path can now be taken to achieve success.
Be Careful Of Your Prevailing Mindset!
With
this mindset we no longer are quick to be critical nor judgmental about others and
their perceived wrong doings (behaviour, choices, attitudes and the likes).
Rather
we are at the point of greater understanding to see their pain, ignorance, the
entrapment of the mind and how they think that they are their mind and how they
believe that they are the ones truly acting out the scenes from the narratives
of the mind.
Remember,
the mind is a habit mind and therefore very resistant to change and all it does
is supposedly to keep you safe and directed to the path it believes is best for
you.
It
is not a logic mind and therefore cannot think and reason things out
analytically, it only goes with what it knows and believes to be true.
You Are True Essence And Divinity!
You
as the true essence of such light and grace are the one in charge as the mind
is nothing but a tool, a servant to use while living in this world and
undergoing our lessons and trainings.
The
mind can easily keep us trapped and lost in the trappings, majesty and splendor
of the world and its creations that we lose focus and forget who we are and why
we are here.
The
world is a great web of illusion and until you understand that and refuse to
get caught up in the narratives of the mind, and the drama of life and all its
creations, you are lost in its intricate web of illusion and deceit.
When
you can see the world for what it is and yet at the same time understand what’s
going on in the world, then you has come into greater understanding of God and
its laws and ways.
Appreciate All Things And All Life!
Then
you can appreciate everything around you – people, animals, birds, insects,
plants and vegetation, minerals and elementals, animate and inanimate things.
Then
you come into an appreciation and love for all things and all of life with a
lesser intensity or speed to jump into conclusions and criticize less quickly.
You
understand people and show empathy and compassion when it is needed, not just
by your family and loved ones but also by your neighbours, community, society
and the world in general.
Those
close to you and around you and most especially those who love you and whom you
love and cherish, you accept without judgement and criticism.
You
understand their plight and are quick to offer assistance and help to help them
through their challenges and problems.
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help
you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the
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