Aging Gracefully – How To Avoid Age-Related Depression!

Aging gracefully is such a luxury these days and so rare to see or find if you will that a lot of people struggle for this and yet it seems to be out of their reach making them sink into anger, frustration and the much dreaded “depression”.

How It Comes About!

Over time and when not addressed or simply ignored as “one of those things that happen to people”, it gradually grows and soon becomes a monster rearing its head in the form of health related situations like mental issues, disorders and problems.

Mental disorders like depression and the likes experienced by older adults may differ from those experienced by younger people, which can make getting an accurate diagnosis or coming into the right conclusions and eventually treatment quite difficult.

For example, an older person who is depressed may be more likely to report having physical symptoms like insomnia, aches/headaches and pains rather than feelings of sadness or worthlessness or unworthiness which younger people may report as having according to how they are feeling at that time.

It is also important to note that many physicians and other health professionals may not provide effective mental-health care because of their limited training and understanding especially as each case will be different and may have a bit of a challenge in the diagnosis and treatment of depression in older and younger people.

Mental Disorders!

Mental disorders represent a grave threat to the health and well-being of people especially older adults and citizens and has also become more pronounced in the younger generation now due to unhealthy lifestyles.

Older adults and citizens have the highest rates of suicide in most countries of the world particularly in the United States and while they represent only 13 percent of the population in the U.S, individuals within the age bracket of 65 and above, account for 20 percent of all suicides.

Men within the age of 85 and above are especially vulnerable with a suicide rate six times greater than that of the general population. Mental disorders can also negatively affect the ability of older people to recover from other health problems especially when these health problems are linked to their state of mind or consciousness at that time. 

Heart attacks are five times more likely to be fatal for a person who is depressed than for others who are not but who are in the same age bracket as the person or people with the depression tendency.

The risk of death for nursing-home residents with major depression is 60-percent higher than for residents who do not have this mental disorder and also within the same age bracket.

Being “really down and out” over a period of time is not a normal part of growing old, but it is a common problem these days and medical help may be needed. For most people, depression can be treated successfully with “Talk” therapies, drugs, or other methods of treatment which can ease the pain of depression and bring about clarity and better understanding.

There Is No Reason To Suffer!

There are many reasons why depression in older people is often missed out on or left untreated.

As a person ages, the signs of depression are much more likely to be dismissed or overlooked as crankiness or grumpiness especially if that person is known for mood swings and hot tempers.

Depression Can Be Tricky To Recognize!

Confusion in a person or attention problems caused by depression can sometimes look like Alzheimer’s disease or other brain disorders.

Mood swings and changes are also signs of depression that can be caused by medicines in older people who may take or are taking medication for high blood pressure or heart disease.

Depression can happen at the same time as other kinds of chronic diseases and disorders. It can be hard for a doctor to diagnose depression especially early at the onset but the good news is that people who are depressed can get better and live a life in balance with the right treatment.

The occurrence of Alzheimer’s disease is not a normal development in the aging process.

Alzheimer’s disease is usually characterized by the following signs and symptoms:

1. A gradual loss of memory

2. A decline in the ability to perform routine tasks

3.  Disorientation

4.  Difficulty in learning

5.  Loss of language skills

6.  Impaired judgment and ability to plan

7. Personality changes.

Over time, these changes become so severe that they may interfere with the individual’s daily functioning and life processes resulting eventually in death.

While the disease can last from a span of 3 to 20 years after the onset of symptoms and signs, the average duration of the disease is usually 8 years.

It’s Age Related!

Alzheimer’s disease affects a lot of people in their “old age” and most people diagnosed with the disease or disorder are usually older than 65 years of age. However, it is possible for the disease to occur in people in their 40s and 50s especially in this generation with their health and lifestyles.

Recent research has shown links between some genes and Alzheimer’s disease, but in about 90 percent of these cases, there is no clear genetic link whatsoever.

Early and careful evaluation is important because many conditions including some that are treatable or reversible, may cause dementia-like symptoms.

Treatable medical conditions are numerous and include conditions such as depression, nutritional deficiencies, adverse drug interactions and reactions and metabolic changes.

In most instances it just requires a change in mental attitude which is responsible for the condition occurring in the first place and may be that simple for a radical and total change to occur and in most cases is all that is required.

Much of the illness, disability and death associated with chronic disease like depression and the likes are avoidable through known prevention measures.

Key measures include the following:

1. Practicing a healthy lifestyle like regular physical activity.

2.  Healthy eating and diet control.

3. Avoid tobacco and other strong stimulants.

4. Early detection is crucial like screening for breast, cervical and colorectal cancers, and diabetes.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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