How To Manage Money!
A lot of people go through life spending money like it’s their last day or there will be no tomorrow and believing that tomorrow will magically take care of itself without their being responsible for making their future what it should be or what it will be.
They thereby fail at
making sure that they age gracefully and live a life of balance.
You Are Responsible For Your Choices In Life!
I am here to tell you
that the responsibility lies squarely in your laps and it’s on you to plan
ahead and create a good life and future for yourself.
Are you a spendthrift – it’s time to learn how
to manage money and save for the rainy day because there will be rainy days.
Are you goody two shoes spending on others but
not on yourself – it’s time to take care of you so that your body will take
care of you and you will age gracefully and live in balance.
Are you a balanced person who spends wisely
and saves for the future – you are well on your way to aging gracefully and
living a life of balance so kudos – keep it up!
It’s All About Knowing!
· How to spend
· When to spend
It’s not about showing your money or gold or
assets, it’s about making the right call on money and assets and how to spend
wisely.
You Are Responsible For Your Reality: No
One Else!
It’s
always so easy to point accusing fingers at others when things aren’t going the
way we want in our lives while oblivious of the fact that the remaining four
are pointing right back at you, showing up explicitly without a shred of doubt
that you are responsible for your reality and what’s happening to you at the
moment.
It’s Time For Sober Reflection!
When
we truly reflect on our lives we will realize that this present time is nothing
more than an accumulation of moment by moment choices that we had made in the
past, without understanding that every choice made consciously or unconsciously
has consequences and you are held liable for them.
Not
your neighbour or your friend who has been so unkind and cruel to you (but in
truth they are both your teachers for a reason and a season which has been
agreed to by mutual consent but of course you can’t recall this arrangement).
How Reality Happens!
How
often do we wake up unhappy with our present condition and immediate
surroundings, wishing by some stroke of luck that we can change it into
something with what we want or desire?
How
many times more do we awaken to what to us means a hostile environment and we
stress ourselves out worrying our head off wanting to change things into
something more in tune with what we want and desire?
We
assume albeit erroneously that something else outside of us in the external
world is responsible for our condition or state of health.
The Mind And It’s Narratives!
Then
your mind goes into over drive and you begins to create and recreate its
narratives and play, bringing in its cast and crew and manifesting them as
reality of your life and experience and this is only because you have allowed
it to be so, you believed totally in your mind, its narratives and play and its
passions.
And
it goes on and on and the negative thoughts create this storm of negativity and
negative storm around you and belong long you hopelessly attract more and more
and even more negativity around you and into your life.
The
more the negative thoughts the greater the negative storm and therefore the
negative reality in your outer life and then you begin to feel so bad and
probably think or even believe that you are crazy.
Reality Starts Within You!
Whatever
starts within you is manifested eventually to the outer world as your ultimate
reality and life’s experiences.
Great
ones and scientists of old and even currently are singing this like a broken
record all the time that whatever is happening outside of you is coming and can
only come from what’s happening from the inside of you.
Gratitude Is The Key To Changes!
You
will observe that when your thoughts and emotions are happy and constructive
and you are in the high spirit of gratitude and love, you experience
unexplainable joy and happiness all day long.
Because
of your high vibes and good mode you find that suddenly all things seem to work
in your favour and everything turns out exactly as you want them to be even
prolonging your happy state further.
It’s
as if the entire world has conspired to make things work and move in your favour
for the ultimate fulfilment of your hearts desires and wants.
You
see like with totally different eyes and can see the interconnectivity of all
life and the beauty and splendor of nature and all creation.
On
the other hand you will observe that when your thoughts and emotions are sad
and destructive and you are in the low spirit of anxiety and stress that you
experience unexplainable unhappiness and sadness all day long.
Because
of your low vibes and sour mode you find that suddenly all things seem to work
not in your favour or against you and everything turns out not exactly as you
want them to be even prolonging your misery and unhappy state further.
Life Takes On A Whole New Meaning!
It’s
as if the entire world has conspired to make things work against you and move
in another direction or path that is not for the ultimate fulfilment of your
hearts desires and wants.
You
see like with totally different eyes and can only see the anger, fear, anxiety
and stress which have manifested as a cruel and unhappy world that is out to
get you so you cry out in sadness and misery.
If
you will take the moment to do a deep reflection of your life to wonder at how
it all happened and how things has changed so suddenly then you will see the
point at which you veered off-course and started to create the negative reality
that has become your experience.
Now
you can go back and recreate your reality to what you want and desire by
changing your thoughts and emotions back to the high vibes of gratitude and
love and you will see a change in your reality for the better.
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the
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