Love Is The Cure For All Your Pain And Anguish!
For me “love is an attitude”.
Love
Is An Attitude!
Happiness they say begins within and if you are happy,
the rest of your day goes happy yet happiness is an offshoot of love and most
people don’t even know that.
Yet love is truly something we all have whether we are
aware of it or not and are destined to use it.
Life is all about giving love and receiving love, love is
life itself and sustains the very foundation of our existence.
Yet so many need this love from us and yet we are too
busy to help them when we could have been the “hand of God” in a dire situation
to help another.
Let
Me Tell You A Story!
An old lady was sitting all by herself feeling lost and
forlorn and passing her by you would immediately realize something was “amiss”,
she wasn’t herself.
Getting closer you can see the tears glistening as they
fell down her cheeks and her hands tightly clasped on her laps as she wrenched
them in uncontrolled sobbing and pain.
She had just lost someone important to her, her husband
and companion of over 50 years of happiness, love and bliss.
There she sat wondering what was going to happen now and
how she was expected to move on or move past it.
Her heart was in so much pain and anguish over her loss
that she was oblivious to a much greater love which resided in her heart and
would ever be so.
She was at this point in fear and anxiety over what life
was bringing to her now.
Eventually she went home after making arrangements for
the body amidst support and love of family and friends who gathered around her
giving her strength to go on.
At the burial she was still in the state of unhappiness
and grief still anxious and fearful and blaming God for the outcome effectively
locking out love from her heart and rather filling it up with anger, resentment
and bitterness at the creator and the world (pointing the finger at others and
staying in a state of ‘VICTIM MENTALITY)
Slowly and unconsciously she was hardening her heart and
a heart once filled with love and happiness was now filled with bitterness and
pain.
She began to complain about everything around her and
everything was wrong with the world which was once a place of love and bliss.
Overtime, her health took a nosedive and deteriorated.
How
Love Healed A Broken Heart!
She ended up in the hospital and was at the point of
death because no matter what the hospital did for her, she wasn’t healing but
rather even deteriorating faster than anticipated.
Her family grew worried about her rapidly deteriorating
health and decline in vitality and it seems as though each day may be her last
on the physical plane.
One night her beloved husband appeared to her in a dream
and told her he was fine and there was life after the death of the body and
that he still loved her but she had to pull herself together and live.
He helped her see the love and affection that has always been
there for her from her family and loved ones who would do anything to get her
well again and were ready to help her overcome her pain and anguish if only she
would let them.
To the doctors, nurses and other hospital workers who
were ready to help her not only to heal and recover but also to help her move
forward in life past her pain and anguish.
She was very much loved in her community and so in her
trying time, people were ready to help her overcome her pain and anguish, but
in her bitterness and resentment she was shutting them all out.
He made her see that it was his time to go because he now
has to serve in other worlds but he would always love and cherish her no matter
what.
But she now has to share that love with others because
that love is forever and it is the essence of who and what she is and will
always be.
He also told her not to worry, she can come visit him in
his new abode whenever she wanted to, all she had to do was imagine he was
there with her and they will instantly be together.
She woke up happy and when the doctor and nurses came to
check in on her as was the usual practice, a miracle laid in wait for them.
She was healed totally and completely and the new tests
conducted showed her healthy and strong and her vital signs were good and it
was truly remarkable.
Her family came to see the miracle too and after keeping
her overnight for observation, she was released to go home the next day into
the waiting arms of her family and loved ones and the community that truly
loved her.
I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this
post, please drop us a line.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
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