Stop Resisting Life Rather Learn To Embrace It And Move With The Flow!

Why do we find it so hard to just move with whatever life is giving to us at the present moment rather than fashion out what exactly we want and fight tooth and nail for that to be what your life is all about?

Do you really think you know what’s best for you rather than what life is currently dishing out for you?

Do you even understand why you are here – alive in this physical world in the first place?

Embrace The Flow!

When you come to the understanding that life is what it is and what is meant to happen will eventually happen, you will find that you will move seamlessly with the flow of life and are led to your mission and destiny in this lifetime.

Too many times, anxiety, worry and stress arise as a result of resisting the flow of life and wanting things to be different and rather for life to be exactly as you want it to be.

On your own terms!

On your own turf!

There Is A Source Of All Existence!

Rather than to bow to the power of the great source of all life and like a loving, trusting and obedient child, be guided and guarded as you navigate the terrain of the world.

The world is so much greater than you can ever imagine and much more than you can ever imagine or know.

Yet on this journey, you aren’t just a random person or being that is merely existing, you are a focal point in the macrocosm of the great source of all life, which is unfolding and wrapping all creations and creatures in the cocoon of its love and affection.

Accept The Flow Of Life!

So many go through problem upon problem, challenges after challenges and issues that seem to have come out of nowhere, and always tend to look outside of themselves for the culprit and the accused.

They simply cannot accept the process and flow of life especially in view of their current situation and reality.

They are so busy pointing accusing fingers at others and feeling so justified about it that they fail to see the other four fingers pointing directly and at close range at them, yes you got it!

They are responsible for their problems and issues whether they are aware of this universal fact or not.

Your Limitation Is Your Undoing!

They believe in their limited perception (you know that perception is truth according to you and from your own vantage point and not necessarily how others see the same situation), they believe that others or something other than themselves are responsible for their plight in life.

What You Resist Persists!

There is a popular saying and belief among people that ‘what you resist persists”. This is a fact and it is the chief factor or cause operating in most people’s life but because they do not understand this or believe in it, they then do not understand their plight and so blame it on others which is so easy to do.

When they come to an understanding of this basic law of life and existence, they can then pause to assess and reassess themselves so that they can find the basic cause of the unpleasant situation or circumstances in their life.

Life!

Life will only bring to you what’s apparently important for your growth, development and evolution especially if it relates to you finding your true essence and divinity.

Life will not bring you lessons to punish you or to bless you as people erroneously believe and subscribe to, life is only a mirror showing back to you what’s happening in your life and where you are currently consciously and subconsciously.

Whenever a lesson present itself to be resolved, the mind goes overdrive into fear and apprehension, you must calm the mind down and block out its narratives and theatrics, that’s the only way you can look at the issues at hand objectively and see it from the whole point of view rather than the parts.

When seen from the whole point of view, your understanding and wisdom is opened and heightened, because you are operating from the true essence of yourself – Soul and your creative centers are in action, now the problem lays itself out and within the problem is the solution and you will be amazed at how simple and easy this can be.

Now you can see why you were resistant in the face place and understand that life is a school where you have come to grow, develop and evolve into your true essence, and as such they will be challenges and tests on the road to that high state of awareness.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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