The Change You Want Starts With You So Be That Change!
It’s so easy to have these thoughts and desires but every
change begins within the individual and not from the without.
The accumulation of the changes within the collectives or
masses is what will bring about the desired, needed or wanted change in the
world.
Why Do We Stop
Educating Ourselves As Adults?
Many
of us learn until the day we die and yet there are intelligent people who are
emotional rollercoasters and catastrophes when it comes to relationships.
They
can’t seem to get it right no matter how hard they try to make things work.
Part of the reason for this might just be the fact that love hasn’t been
considered as a subject worthy of investment and sacrifice.
Some
many end up dating the same partner over and over again wondering how that
could have happened in the first place when they were so astute and careful
with some even becoming very choosy.
Yet
they ended up with the same partner they detested and fervently prayed against.
They
did not understand that they were responsible for drawing the same men – mostly
abusive ones in the case of the females into their lives and must face the
music.
If
they do not understand the law of attraction and subsequently taking
responsibility for their lives and the kind of relationship they end up in,
then they will continue to suffer.
They
will keep moving from one dysfunctional relationship to the other, from one
abusive or manipulative partner to the other and the cycle continues and soon
they are drawn into the never ending abysmal depth of pain and misery in their
relationships.
It
is tragic!
Try
as they might and no matter what they do, it seems like the stars are just not
aligned in their favor.
Are You Emotional When It Comes To
Relationships?
When you are emotional and quick to lose it in any
minor quarrel or disagreement, then how can you stay ahead of the game in your
relationship?
When
you are with an emotional partner it can be a frustrating and heart wrenching
struggle to keep the relationship together except they come out of their state
and learn to accept responsibility and not throw tantrums like a three year
old.
Be The Change You Seek!
When
they are tired of throwing tantrums and truly seek change and radical
transformation and they are at the level where they are far removed from being
biased and are willing to accept responsibility and make their relationship
work.
Then
the change can truly begin within themselves and over time spread to their
partner and transform not only themselves but their partners and the relationship
takes a new turn for the best.
They
can now operate from the core essence of who and what they really are vibrating
at the frequency of light and love spreading love, joy and happiness to their
partners and their loved ones.
They
can now see their partners also as divine beings of light and love and each
operating at their level of consciousness and are doing their best where they
are.
For
most, their new state of reasoning and understanding brings a new state of
consciousness that puts them out there to attract a better mate and partner and
their former partners leave to meet their match according to the law of
attraction.
This
new state of being brings like-minded people your way and you attract
like-minded partners who would love you like you do and treat you with utmost
love and respect.
But
remember - it starts with you!
I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this
post, please drop us a line.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
phone numbers listed below:
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