Your Reality Is Shaped By Your Thinking Pattern!
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Do you even realize that the life you are living is the
one you have consciously or unconsciously created for yourself and that only
you can change your life if you want to or if you truly desire change.
Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise as they will only be
deceiving you and since there are so many false prophets preying on people and
making money off of them, be careful you don’t fall into their trap.
Wanting
To Do Something And Actually Getting To Do It Are Two Different Things Mind You!
Life is a series of events that are interconnected yet
each is a separate lesson with an invaluable lesson that is meant to equip you
with the right tools and skills on your sojourn and mission on earth to become
more Godlike.
Emotions are meant to teach you great wisdom only when
you allow them in without resistance of course, move with the flow of the
lesson inherent and let it play out.
Don’t try to manipulate the scheme of events or control
the outcome, because then you would only be deceiving yourself and come out the
ultimate loser.
You
Cannot Control The Events Of Your Life!
Get this straight once and for all – you cannot control
the events of your life and you cannot control the divine essence from which
you spring from.
You are its beloved, borne out of its great love and
mercy and is sustained for as long as its love abides and your lesson in that
particular incarnation keeps running. Karmic lessons must be worked out and
resolved before you can move to the next level.
Karmic
Lessons!
Most karmic lessons are just corrections of our mental
aberrations and they are:
1. Anger
which is principally borne out of fear
2. Greed
3. Vanity
4. Lust
5. Attachment
If you truly look at the list above and securitize
thoroughly, you would see that they are the ills of the world summarized into
simple terms and if you can guard and watch out for them then you have the
power to shape your life the way you want it and fulfil your destiny and
birthright.
Inaccurate
And Distorted Thinking!
Inaccurate or distorted thinking patterns are basically
borne out of anger, fear or any other strong emotion, when you allow the mind
to control your life out of unwillingness to accept responsibility for your
life, then it goes into overdrive to protect you.
The mind makes you believe that the world and its
creation is your enemy and that life is simply not fair yet this is a great
illusion because the laws of God and consequently that of the world is fair and
just.
Everything in your life you have created and manifested
whether you believe it or not.
Perceiving an unseen or imaginary enemy is the way of the
mind to keep you enmeshed in the throes of illusion and give control of your
life to it.
It’s
Time To Change The Pattern!
When you decide you have had enough and would rather want
to create your life as you want it then you are ready to take responsibility
for your life and recreate the events and circumstances of your life.
Then you would discover the deception and illusion
surrounding all that you have been taught and believed to be true especially
from childhood. You see how your childhood training had created a pattern that
has brought the chain of events of your life into existence and how you
manifested everything in your world.
Most times, the inaccurate and distorted thinking patterns
we carry with all throughout our lives were created from childhood from our
earliest memories from our parents, guardians or caregivers and we swallowed it
completely hook, line and sinker and took it as the gospel truth.
We weren’t informed at such young age to question a lot
of things we saw, heard or were told was the truth.
We were too young not to give into our strong emotions
back then and allow the mind in its bid to protect us from hurting ourselves
and acting as the master instead of the servant in this case, to take over
judgement and execute as it sees fit.
Taking
Responsibility!
We were too young to understand life and its challenges
and were apt to refuse to take responsibility and unfortunately turning over
such to the mind, which in its lack of logic and judgement only executed as it
saw fit.
Those from dysfunctional families didn’t have the
opportunity of love and guidance that those from functional families have, so
they see the world different and chose not to love themselves nor believe in
love.
Again they gave control consciously or unconsciously to
the mind and gain it chose to execute as it saw it.
The mind keeps you enmeshed in its web of deceit and
illusion and you must struggle to break free or else be damned to a life of
unfairness and total anarchy.
Misunderstanding
Life!
Your inaccurate or distorted thinking patterns therefore
arose out of a great misunderstanding of life around you and created the
sadness and misery of your life right now. The mind will only do as you
commanded and do anything and everything to keep you safe.
In order to change this inaccurate and distorted thinking
patterns and consequently your life and everything in it, you have to really
understand life and get out of the illusion of seeing yourself as life’s victim.
There
Is No Victim Anywhere!
You have to see life as what it truly is, an opportunity
to grow and evolve and be a better version of yourself in all ways. You can
only learn through hardships and suffering but you must not see them as such.
You only see them as the gems that have been brought your
way to work through and remove your weaknesses and flaw and help you grow and
evolve into a greater person and a more spiritual being.
Then only can your outer life start to change and your
life starts going in the direction you have always wanted and dreamt about.
Only then and there!
I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this
post, please drop us a line.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help
guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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