Adverse Effect Of Wrong Mental Behaviour!
But when a boy likes the idea of beating females and weaker ones especially at school – bullies, they naturally tend to move into that area unconsciously hence the need to monitor how you think and behave.
They find excitement to see other cowering in fear and feel macho and powerful about it. Hence the ‘Ego” and the reason a lot of men watch football and wrestling is a big thing now.
The Blame Game!
Have
you ever wondered why it’s so easy to blame other people so easily for our
life’s challenges or take offense so quickly when others pull our strings or
rile us up?
Does
it even cross our minds to look deeper at the other person’s behaviour and
attitude to understand the cause or reason for such in the first place?
Especially
if it’s out of character for the other person.
So
many times we are so lost in our issues and situations of life especially when
life throws one challenge after another at us, that we forget that other people
are going through their own challenges too.
Some
people can handle their challenges, trials and tribulations very well and are
courageous as they face it and work through it to bring balance into their
life.
Some
others cannot handle their own life’s challenges, trials and tribulations and
for some it’s even much worse for yet some people as they are knocked out flat
and defeated even before they are started.
They
are so overtaken by their mind and its narratives that they simply cannot see
through the illusion played out by their minds.
They
are so lost in the drama and narratives that they totally believe it’s their
play and act accordingly.
They
show up to those handling their issues and challenges as people who are so
fearful, angry and obsessed with lamentation and complain.
Take A Step Back And Review
Life!
Except
they take a step back to review what’s happening to them especially why they
are displaying the various negative emotions and vibes that they are emitting,
they cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel and will forever be lost
down the rabbit hole.
Its
gloomy and dreary I know that!
They
are like the Ostrich which has stuck its head in the sand and is refusing to
come out and look around it again.
It
simply refuses to face reality and would rather stay stuck in the emotions that
run its narratives and create the experiences and sequence of life events that
unfold towards his fears.
This
people will always lament and complain and would prefer to keep doing so and
when you attempt to help them see through the illusions of their minds, they
would rather prefer to remains stuck in their minds because it’s easy to give
power to the mind.
They
prefer to have something else take responsibility while they take the back
burner and just play second fiddle and ride along and see as it goes.
The
mind ever happy to protect you from the “supposed enemy and threat to life”,
would gladly continue to run its narratives and create scene after scene and
act after act.
All
the while portraying the ever faithful friend and ally wanting only to keep you
safe and sound, will magnify these issues and problems until you lost in the
mirage, getting deeper and deeper in the tangles of the illusion.
Take Charge!
When
they finally decide to face their issues and identify the cause of their
behaviour and mental attitudes that is adversely affecting their lives, then
and only then can they bring about positive changes in their lives.
They
can now see and realize the impart of their negative mental and emotional
states and behaviour in their lives and how it had created their life
experiences and reality.
They
can now go on to make on to make better informed choices from their new
understanding of life and now change their lives for the better.
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review
and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and
absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s
when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the
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