Aging Gracefully: How To Look And Feel Great As You Get Older!


We all want to look great as we age. And we all know 
that woman somewhere: She's on point from head to toe and carries herself like she means it, defying aging with every step.

So what's she doing?

She is absolutely in love with herself and passionately stay in love and is in tune to the core of her being and the true essence of herself – body, mind and spirit.

Same thing applies or that man that you know who is always looking so well put together and alluring, that you begin to wonder is he is from another world or century or if he was just lucky.

Take care your body, and drum up youth-boosting confidence no matter how many birthday candles are on your cake or how many years you have lived, it only matters how old you think and feel that you are.

Yes my friend, it’s all in how you think and feel about yourself.

Perception Is Everything!

Do you look at yourself and only see the wrinkles and laughter lines that are the unavoidable signs of protein reduction and synthesis and thereby give yourself unnecessary cause for worry and panic.

Do you buy into the mad frenzy of the world on social media and news media about anti-aging and staying young forever?

That’s is an impossibility.

Everything has a beginning and inevitably an end so is the same with life and death and there is nothing to be unhappy or worried about in aging especially if you age gracefully.

How To Age Gracefully!

Are you one to see the beauty and magnificence of all creations, creatures and all life?

Do you see the beauty and wonder of this human body and yearn to keep it tenderly taken care of because it is the vehicle that is housing your true essence and that which you navigate the terrain of this world?

Aging gracefully simply means caring for your body lovingly and tenderly and that starts with the loving thoughts and emotions that you carry about yourself and your life in your mind.

They emanate from you and create the reality you see all around you as either a healthy mind and body or a diseased mind and body.

Disease Simply Means A Body And Mind Not At Peace!

How do you mean you ask?

When you are full of positive and joyful thoughts and radiate light and love, this creates an aura of health for the cells, tissues, organs and the entire system.

On the other hand when you radiate negative unhappy thoughts, you are in a state of worry, anxiety and stress and that creates panic, the light and love is gone and you are in darkness (devoid of the light that is your true essence and divinity).

This creates an unbalance in the body and the stress hormone gets produced more in res[ponse to your negative thoughts and emotions and are transported all over the body leading to ill health and disease.

Why Do You Worry In The First Place?

Because you do not see the beauty and splendor of this life and the gift that life truly is.

You are more concerned about what others think about you and want validation and acceptance from others when the only validation and acceptance that matters is the one you give yourself.

When you give yourself that validation and acceptance then you will truly see the beauty and precious gift that life is and you will come to love and appreciate all of life.

In turn, life will love you back awesomely and grant you every desire which will accumulate in a fortune so rare like a healthy mind and body.

As Charlie Chaplin said “As I began to love myself, I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health like food, people, things, situations and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is simply “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

As you begin to love yourself in this world of victim consciousness, you realize that life takes on a new form and different meaning and you can’t help but wonder at the magic and beauty before you that is life.

You begin to appreciate the magnificence of this great being that you are, finally realizing after so long and after trails and problems that you are greater than everything that is around you.

You are drawn to food and things that will not only aid your survival in this world but to others and other things that will make your dreams come true because of your state of vibration, this is all according to the law of attraction.

As you love yourself you attract only the best for your body and as you pamper yourself so are all your cells, tissues and entire system loved and pampered and irrespective of what’s going on in the world, you simple continue to love yourself basking in the truth of who you really are.

The result is you feeling good about yourself and not just feeling but it shows up as you looking good and feeling great about yourself and your life.

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

Remember if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:

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