Your Future Is Here So Quit Worrying About It!
The past, present and future already exist in this
present moment as a single continuum, why then do you worry about it when it’s
right there in front of you and you are searching all around you.
We have been taught at an early age that the future is
something to look forward to and so we start to develop, anxiety, worry and
eventually stress over an event we think or believe will happen sometime in the
future or immediate future.
Worry
And Stress!
We worry and stress ourselves out hoping that it will
turn out exactly as we have planned it to be, we seem to forget that there is
an already system planned out for your life by the great source of all life.
This system is holding you accountable moment by moment
for all your:
1. Thoughts
2. Words
3. Actions
So the future you so desperately seek to go exactly as
you want or desire may not end up as you wish because you have already set
things in motion and are held accountable for all you do.
The thoughts and words you think and speak create the
actions that are the manifestation of what you see as your reality and
experience.
How
You Create Your Reality!
In the long run then, if you want a positively happy
future, you must create it in the present moment with the right – thoughts,
words and actions which will ultimately create the future you desire.
On the other hand, if you are so negative and your
thoughts, words and actions are negatively inclined, then you can only reap
what you have sown.
The future will be so problematic and chaotic that you
will wonder at it all and erroneously put yourself in the victim role and look
for someone else to blame for all your problems and sorrow.
Unfortunately as you are pointing an accusing finger at
someone, the remaining four fingers are pointing right back at you because you
truly are your own worst enemy and the cause of all your headache and
heartache.
It’s
Time For Sober Reflection!
When we truly reflect on our lives we will realize that
this present time is nothing more than an accumulation of moment by moment
choices that we had made in the past, without understanding that every choice
made consciously or unconsciously has consequences and you are held liable for
them.
How
Reality Happens!
How often do we wake up unhappy with our present
condition and immediate surroundings, wishing by some stroke of luck that we
can change it into something with what we want or desire?
How many times more do we awaken to what to us means a
hostile environment and we stress ourselves out worrying our head off wanting
to change things into something more in tune with what we want and desire?
We assume albeit erroneously that something else outside
of us in the external world is responsible for our condition or state of
health.
The
Mind And It’s Narratives!
Then your mind goes into over drive and you begins to
create and recreate its narratives and play, bringing in its cast and crew and
manifesting them as reality of your life and experience and this is only
because you have allowed it to be so, you believed totally in your mind, its
narratives and play and its passions.
And it goes on and on and the negative thoughts create
this storm of negativity and negative storm around you and belong long you
hopelessly attract more and more and even more negativity around you and into
your life.
The more the negative thoughts the greater the negative
storm and therefore the negative reality in your outer life and then you begin
to feel so bad and probably think or even believe that you are crazy.
And you probably are because negative things happen all
around you without a plausible explanation as to why it’s happening.
Gratitude
Is The Key To Changes!
You will observe that when your thoughts and emotions are
happy and constructive and you are in the high spirit of gratitude and love,
you experience unexplainable joy and happiness all day long.
Because of your high vibes and good mode you find that
suddenly all things seem to work in your favour and everything turns out
exactly as you want them to be even prolonging your happy state further.
It’s as if the entire world has conspired to make things
work and move in your favour for the ultimate fulfilment of your hearts desires
and wants.
You see like with totally different eyes and can see the
interconnectivity of all life and the beauty and splendor of nature and all
creation.
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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will
serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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