It’s Time For A Radical Revolution In Human Relationships!

We mostly tend to believe that empathy, tolerance, compassion, human sympathy or whatever you may wish to call it, should be reserved for the people living on the social margins of life, like the poor and destitute of the society or those who are suffering.

This is necessary and okay but it is not enough!

The Time For Change Is Here!

We need to look onto each other or one another like family and have no segregation nor discrimination in the society.

We are our brother’s keeper and as such would look out for him and only wish and desire things for the good of all in the society.

 

Cultural, social and racial discrimination should be the thing of the past because if we truly understand the law of karma and reincarnation and how it applies to the physical universe and all the universes then we would realize that we come from the great one source of all life and existence.

 

We are not different!

We are one and the same!

 

We Are All One And The Same!

When we begin to understand this great principle and philosophy of life we begin to see others and all creatures of the great source of all life differently and not as separate from us.

 

We begin to understand empathy and develop empathy for all creatures and creations of the great source of all life because we understand that we are beings of light and love and exist because of this great love.

 

We need to empathize with the people whose beliefs or religious belief system and faith practices we don’t share, are different from ours or who may be the perceived “enemies” in some way – one way or another.

 

Let’s Give Empathy A Chance!

If you are a campaigner on global world issues or political and world affairs for instance, it may be worth it by trying to step into the shoes of these perceived enemies and offenders like th

e Oil company executives and looking to understanding their thinking and motivations for doing what they did and have done.

 

If you want to devise effective strategies to help them shift or ultimately move them towards developing renewable and sustainable energy, then a little energy and also a little of the “instrumental empathy” sometimes known as “impact anthropology” can go a long way in achieving this objective.

 

This also goes a long way in trying to understanding band eventually curbing terrorism and acts of extreme wickedness like kidnapping, molestation, armed banditry and other well-known social problems and bringing them to a halt.

 

It’s all in the mind!

 

Empathy For All Life!

Empathizing with adversaries can also help in social tolerance and acceptance of others, their faith and religious beliefs and their way of life in general, when we see that as we value our faith and way of life so do they want the same.

The onus then rests on all to give to others the same that you seek for yourself because before the great source of all life, all are equal and stand before it as equals and are loved equally.

None is higher than the other or above the other.

This was Gandhi’s thinking during the conflicts between Muslims and Hindus leading up to Indian independence in 1947, when he declared, “I am a Muslim! And a Hindu, and a Christian and a Jew.”

World leaders, corporate leaders and generally organizations and companies should be ambitious with their empathic thinking. Bill Drayton the renowned - father of social entrepreneurship, believes that in an era of rapid technological change and advancement, and that “mastering empathy is the key business survival skill” because it underpins successful teamwork and leadership.

 

His influential Ashoka Foundation has launched the Start Empathy initiative which is taking its ideas to business leaders, politicians and educators worldwide.

 

It’s All In The Mind!

 

The 20th century was the Age of Introspection, when self-help and therapy culture encouraged people to believe that the best way to understand who they were and how to live their lives was to look inside themselves wholly and without any form of bias.

 

But it left people gazing at their own navels without a clue as to what they were really meant to search for and understand.

 

The 21st century and going forward on the other hand, should become the Age of Empathy and compassion when we discover ourselves not simply through self-reflection and analysis, but by becoming interested in the lives of others as well as our own and having ultimate regard for the sanctity of human life.

 

Which we seem to have lost and have no clue about!

 

We need empathy to create a new kind of revolution and existence of life so that people can begin to see the world as the beauty and magnificence that it truly is and not the dark, empty void which is so unfair that they have become accustomed to

 

Not an old-fashioned revolution built on new laws and conquering new lands and the likes, or on new institutions, or policies, but a radical revolution in human relationships.

 

I would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a line.

In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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