The Duty Of Parents To Their Children And Wards!
I believe it’s the parents’ duty and they owe it to the child as guardian until they can make matured decisions themselves to help them make reasonable and beneficial decisions regarding their health and future.
They
need to stand their ground and not be swayed by tantrum or emotion (after all
the truth be told, they eventually shut up when they see you aren’t moved and
they aren’t getting their way and most importantly when they get tired and run
out of options)
Our
state of health is governed by five factors and they include:
· Nutrition
· Digestion
· Elimination
· Circulation
· Relaxation
There
is no doubt that for a balanced state of health, there must be effective and
excellent chemical balance in the body and the five factors above must work
together harmoniously.
If you
pay attention to children and closely monitor and observe them, you will see
the need for this clearly in most homes. Some children would cry out and
misbehave around their parents especially the mother and grandmothers just to
get what they want.
They
wouldn’t try such around the fathers and grandfathers though because they know
what is coming and know they cannot get away with their game.
Emotional Deception!
They
start out as infants and toddlers first before maturing. Instead of giving into
their demands which in all cases are food detrimental to their health, such
food should be replaced with healthier and raw food which is more beneficial
and though they may hate you now but they will thank you later in life.
It’s
alarming when you go out to restaurants and fun places and you see parents load
up the kids on sugary food and drinks, pastries, chewing gums and sweets just
because it’s what the child wants and they cry to get to the parents emotions.
The attitude of crying to get what they want should be curbed.
In
the long run if this excesses aren’t controlled and curbed but the child is
allowed to get whatever he/she wants and this is termed loving, then this can
lead to diseases and disorders that are long coming.
There Is A Reason For
Everything That Happens!
Sometimes
we forget that there is always an underlying reason and purpose for everything
that has happened, is happening and will happen to us and it’s up to us to find
the root cause early on and nip it in the bud.
Minors
and young ones cannot consciously make the decision to help themselves create a
healthy and fruitful life so it’s up to the adults and the society at large to
do that for them and help them on the journey to longevity and finding out who
and what they truly are.
Every
time most people suffer with pain, illness or depression, they will run to the
body mechanic, not realizing their body is talking to them.
It
has a message that can be understood if we can listen to the information being
presented by our computer-based mind. Rather than block or relieve the symptoms
with drugs, we need to look at what happened to cause malfunction in our life.
This
not about our body, but about a situation or a task we ignore, or something we
do to get attention and acceptance. This is most common with minors and
children.
We
want a payoff so we can get what we want out of the situation, usually tied
into an attempt to control a situation. Same thing applies to minors and young
ones.
The Baseline Is The Need For
Love!
The
base need is for love and acceptance, which most people do not have in their
life. Getting past this block is really about love and self-empowerment. They
need to be empowered because at this stage, they cannot do it for themselves.
Most
people are of the opinion that’s good nutrition and becoming a vegetarian would
heal their body and get them back on their feet. But alas this is not always
the case.
It’s
not about what we eat; it’s about what’s eating us that controls how we feel
and think. This is same for the kids, we have to understand what is going on
with them at the earliest in order to curb any danger to themselves and
possibly others especially in schools and play grounds.
So many
suffer low self-esteem and are targeted by bullies in school who prey on their
emotional and mental vulnerability to make them feel worthless and unloved.
This is
most common in dysfunctional families and with kids in foster care and foster
homes, they believe there is something wrong with them hence they cannot be loved
and for those in foster care, that’s why they were abandoned by their parents
and loved ones.
Pay
Attention To The Body And Health!
Most people do not pay attention to
their bodies or the early symptoms it releases until the conditions/situation
become grave and serious and then they head off to the hospital for treatment.
Most hospitals treat the symptoms as
it presents itself as that is how they see it without understanding that for
good health to be restored then the principle of life (the principle of the
three must be restored)
· Body
· Mind
· Spirit
Moreover, screening programs can
lead to preventive measures and early treatment interventions that can
substantially reduce the impact of illnesses among older people provided they
follow the principle outlined above.
How
To Resolve This:
Diet is just as important as the
other factors but maybe even more important. Nutritional status influences the
progress of many diseases, and studies have shown that good nutritional status
can reduce length of hospital stay, contributing to a life in balance.
Balanced
diet is compulsory and a must and involves the following classes of food:
·
Carbohydrate
·
Protein
·
Fat and
oil
·
Minerals
·
Vitamins
·
Trace
elements
·
Fiber
·
Water
Eating
the right way and at the right times means that your cells, tissues, organs and
the entire body system can obtain the following elements that it requires for
nourishment, repair and rebuilding:
· Oxygen
· Nutrients
· Water
· Vitamins
As you
can see it is imperative for the young ones and the younger generation to start
now, this time and place to pave way for a healthy life and future for
themselves.
Their
future is a consequence of the choice or choices that they make today and so
they have to make the right choices and be guided in the right direction.
When this
is done, we will have the opportunity for the young ones aging gracefully and
longevity in this life as the quality of life over the years has dwindled due
to so many lifestyle changes and advancement in science and technology.
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In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move
through your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
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