The Need To Monitor Minors For Signs On Time!

If you pay attention to children and closely monitor and observe them, you will see the need for this clearly in most homes. Some children would cry out and misbehave around their parents especially the mother and grandmothers just to get what they want.

 

They wouldn’t try such around the fathers and grandfathers though because they know what is coming and know they cannot get away with their game.

 

Emotional Deception!

They start out as infants and toddlers first before maturing. Instead of giving into their demands which in all cases are food detrimental to their health, such food should be replaced with healthier and raw food which is more beneficial and though they may hate you now but they will thank you later in life.

 

It’s alarming when you go out to restaurants and fun places and you see parents load up the kids on sugary food and drinks, pastries, chewing gums and sweets just because it’s what the child wants and they cry to get to the parents emotions. The attitude of crying to get what they want should be curbed.

 

 

In the long run if this excesses aren’t controlled and curbed but the child is allowed to get whatever he/she wants and this is termed loving, then this can lead to diseases and disorders that are long coming.

There Is A Reason For Everything That Happens!

Sometimes we forget that there is always an underlying reason and purpose for everything that has happened, is happening and will happen to us and it’s up to us to find the root cause early on and nip it in the bud.

 

Minors and young ones cannot consciously make the decision to help themselves create a healthy and fruitful life so it’s up to the adults and the society at large to do that for them and help them on the journey to longevity and finding out who and what they truly are.

 

Every time most people suffer with pain, illness or depression, they will run to the body mechanic, not realizing their body is talking to them.

It has a message that can be understood if we can listen to the information being presented by our computer-based mind. Rather than block or relieve the symptoms with drugs, we need to look at what happened to cause malfunction in our life.

This not about our body, but about a situation or a task we ignore, or something we do to get attention and acceptance. This is most common with minors and children.

We want a payoff so we can get what we want out of the situation, usually tied into an attempt to control a situation. Same thing applies to minors and young ones.

The Baseline Is The Need For Love!

The base need is for love and acceptance, which most people do not have in their life. Getting past this block is really about love and self-empowerment. They need to be empowered because at this stage, they cannot do it for themselves.

 

Most people are of the opinion that’s good nutrition and becoming a vegetarian would heal their body and get them back on their feet. But alas this is not always the case.

It’s not about what we eat; it’s about what’s eating us that controls how we feel and think. This is same for the kids, we have to understand what is going on with them at the earliest in order to curb any danger to themselves and possibly others especially in schools and play grounds.

So many suffer low self-esteem and are targeted by bullies in school who prey on their emotional and mental vulnerability to make them feel worthless and unloved.

 

This is most common in dysfunctional families and with kids in foster care and foster homes, they believe there is something wrong with them hence they cannot be loved and for those in foster care, that’s why they were abandoned by their parents and loved ones.

 

They can often be aggressive and withdrawn, temperamental and unruly and seem badly behaved but its only them trying to find answers to things and situations they don’t understand, hence they lash out in their pain and misery trying to find closure or answers in their own way.

 

They often turn to hard drugs and substance abuse to find the joy and happiness that they seek or desire but cannot seem to fine because their heart and love center is closed as a result of the pain they are feeling and which they don’t understand.

 

When they are made to understand this and love and affection is created as the baseline and foundation in the home, then the stage is set for them to find the love and closure they seek bringing sanity and progress back into their lives and reality.

 

But for now, they must be monitored for early signs and symptoms of any emotional and mental breakdown or their ability to cope with life.

 

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In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:

“Thank you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.

Jean Voice Dart!

 

These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:

“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.

Hafiz

“Within you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.

Robert Adam

“Don’t you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.

Rumi

“I am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.

Jesus

“Your heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.

Mooji

 

Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most people.

Taking responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.

Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.

Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.

Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your limitations.

‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’

The purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.

As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.

A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.

This is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.

Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.

You can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.

It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:

1. THOUGHTS

2. WORDS

3. ACTION

Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.

If and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.

That’s when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.

To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.

The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.

You can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.

Victims do not hold that belief!

So ask yourself – are you a victim?

Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.

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