The Link Between Emotion and Diseases!
The
link between emotions and diseases is a topic that I know will make your mind
wonder as you try to figure it out. It will make a lot of people wonder what I
am talking about.
You wonder in your mind turning the question over and
over again trying to make sense of it but yet somehow finding it difficult to
correlate emotion and diseases together and even to link them together and you
wonder at what I mean.
Let
Me Tell You A Story To Illustrate What I Am Talking About:
A man
was told that within a day he was going to lose his money. It was a shock to
him and set him a-back in complete surprise.
He
was simply told that “We broke one of the rules in our loan with the bank, so
they are coming and shutting us down.”
He tried
to come up with solutions to solve this problem, he offered to buy the company
back from the bank which was taking over and probably will sell it off.
He
planned to sell off the pieces that that would pay for the cost to buy the
company and leave himself with a profit.
He
was in for a shock, ‘no sale’. “This was his money”, he said to
himself. This was retirement money for him and his family now he was left with
nothing.
“Zero”.
That was where he was and there was nothing he could do about it, nothing at
all. He
became afraid wondering how he would come up with that kind of money again.
What
was he going to do and how would this affect him? He knew he would wake up at 3
in the morning anxious, scared and panicking.
He
was afraid of being afraid because fear:
·
Makes people sick.
·
Makes people sad.
·
Makes people anxious.
·
Makes people not to love others as
they become pre-occupied.
·
Makes people feel small.
How
would he laugh when people told a joke?
How
would he interact like a normal human being?
How
can he remain himself and not lose himself to the problem?
Maybe
he should Jump high in front of an oncoming car and kill himself and end it
out. He felt all sweaty and clammy and knew his blood pressure was shooting
high and he could feel the migraine coming as he felt sick to the pit of his
stomach
Then
it hit him – the answer to his problem was simply – ‘Solve his problems’.
No
matter where you have been or are in life – happy, success, sad, or smart -
things always happen good or bad. Be slow to react and fast to think of
solutions and always remain calm in the face of any challenge or problem.
What To Do:
When imprisoned in the solitary
confinement of fear, the first challenge is to find the grace and honesty to
see recognize the problem and walk through it to restore balance to yourself
once more. This is exactly the seed that will create balance you desire in your
life.
What Happens?
Once that is done, you discover that
you start to feel calm and your heartbeat returns to normal and you feel your
blood pressure normalize and you feel peaceful, happy and calm as you suddenly
discover that the fear has been neutralized and you feel whole again.
What People Do?
Normally, most people would go to
the hospital for medication or buy medications over the counter to counter the
migraine without tracing the real cause of the migraine and high blood pressure
– ‘Fear’ and end up taking medications or treatment that don’t work but rather
overload the organs and poison it.
In most cases, they may have respite
for a few hours or days only for a bigger problem to surface out of the signs
and symptoms of the body and they usually continue the same course of action –
more medications and drugs.
What People Should do?
·
Find out what is the cause of the
problem like in the case of the man in the story above
·
Work to solve the problem and not
suppress it
·
Do not respond to the emotions that
may spring up within this period
·
Think of all the things to be
grateful for.
This
is what beats the fear. This is what turns failure into future great success.
Gratitude and Fear can’t exist in
the brain at the same time.
I
would love to hear from you or your thoughts on this post, please drop us a
line.
In
closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These
words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking
responsibility and recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a
reality for most people.
Taking
responsibility to see life differently without justification, judgement and
blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long
run.
Every
condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for
review and to be dealt with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt
and absorbed, the conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and
that’s when we say a healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every
problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and
emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing
can stop you if you have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through
your limitations.
‘Let
yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The
purpose of life is to discover who you really are, know and create yourself and
experience yourself as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a
part of the divine source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of
the divine.
As
long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a
challenge that you can overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will
pay you back handsomely.
A
lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to the current life until
you get the lesson right or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson
is more intense, than the last experience until you recognize it.
This
is an interactive universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons
and life whether we want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our
fears always surface when we least expect it and when it does, its better to
face the lesson and conquer it.
You
can take back control of your life and drive it the way you would rather want
it to be and have things and have things the way you want it to be.
It
takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life
because whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody
wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t
take you far except you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and
desire to turn it around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions
come in.
If
and when you are now truly ready to take back control and look out for the
patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind aberrations that are
causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s
when the creative centers open within and you can finally have the tools to
help you change the course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To
succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the
prevailing situation or condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to
succeed.
The
most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and
that you understand that you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You
can do anything you want to and be anything you want to, provided you believe
that it is possible.
Victims
do not hold that belief!
So
ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes
a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a
host of others can help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is
yours and yours only.
Remember
if you have questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the
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