My Life Is Okay The Way It Is – Truth Or An Illusion
They are obviously living an illusion, a false or fake
life.
Yet I am tempted to ask them such simple questions like:
How are your finances?
How is your health?
How are your kids doing?
How is work?
How is your business coming along?
When was the last time you took a vacation?
Why do you look so stressed?
They do you look so gloomy and sad?
Why are you lamenting and complaining?
Why are you losing or have lost weight?
I could go on and on and on but you get the scene don’t
you.
Mostly all you have to do is take a good and critical look
at their lives and you can see what they are blinded to or are refusing to face
up to and the mind has created the illusion to keep them safe, it depends on
how you are looking at it.
When you are blinded to certain situations or things
happening in your life or refuse to face to face the reality of the truth that
is before you, then the mind the ever faithful and obedient servant goes to
work.
It creates a denial file in your mind which is very much
like a computer program and keeps the memory of whatever event, circumstances
or situation that you don’t want to face hidden there and away from conscious
memory.
It does this for your own good!
This is more so and moreso especially for certain
childhood events and circumstances that you refused to deal with and since it
would hurt you, it is filed away for safety until such a time when you will be
ready to face up to it.
But so many people even in adulthood are still like
little kids throwing tantrums here and there when certain life events are
thrown at them and which they must work through.
They still refuse to face it and would rather live in the
denial and lie of “my life is ok”.
The ultimate question is “is your life really ok?”
If your life is truly ok then you are an enlightened one
who becomes a conscious being as exemplified by so many who have lived before
us and still exist among us.
These great ones once like us, threaded the earth lost
and searching for the ultimate answer to life’s questions:
Who am I?
Why am I here?
Who sent me?
Yet they patiently and diligently searched for answers
and when these same questions came for them, faced up to these circumstances
and situations to understand what it all means while hoping to find answers to
life’s questions.
They courageously faced anything – events, situations and
circumstances that appeared in their lives yet not bothered about the pain and
anguish because they understand and know that pain and anguish are only
teachers which bring love and blessings from the most high and divine source of
all life.
They were rather focused on what the events had in store
and why it was in there life which they understood was for a reason.
They began to see the play of life at work.
They could now see and understand how you are responsible
for all that happens to you so you had better stop crying foul and face up to
the responsibility of taking on whatever it brings on.
They also saw how what they had thought was a monster
once they took responsibility and faced up to the challenge of recreating their
lives became a small mouse that they could easily trample upon.
Yet the goal for them was the illumination and
understanding that comes from all this.
The lesson in the form of great blessings and love and
gratitude that fills their heart for the demystification of the riddle of life.
Yes absolutely!
They solved the riddle and life could never surprise them
again.
So the next time someone asks you how you are doing or
how life is with you? Think twice before automatically replying that – “my life
is ok the way it is”.
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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