Pain And Grief Can Actually Teach You A lot
It’s funny how people are so quick to run away from pain
and anything that is associated to pain, like anger, sadness and unhappiness,
sorrow and grief, jealousy and envy, fear and anxiety. But if they were to take
the time to actually look into these emotions and feelings, they may actually
be surprised with what they will discover.
If we understand that life with all its attendant
challenges, situations and problems bring joy to the greatness that is you as
“Soul”. Soul didn’t just come to the world to get all caught up in its
intricacies and web of power and deceit but for much more.
You are here as an ever evolving power from which a
greater power (God or the Universe or whatever this great source of life means
to you) works to perfect itself and its creations.
You around you at nature and its beauty, a wonder beyond
wonder and let nature embrace you in its web of love and delight and show you
wonders beyond your limited imagination of the mind and its encompassing
limitation of matter, space, energy and time.
Pain and grief if you would but trust this great power
and presence from which you exist is only a passing phase that brings you a
great lesson from the past or present that you aren’t aware of or have refused
to acknowledge, learn from and move beyond applying it practically into your
life and thereby creating a change in your consciousness which is what it’s all
about in the first place.
If you will but embrace it, you will be shocked to find
that what you felt was pain and sorrow actually is nothing but an attachment
that your mind has refused to let go of and when you realize this and let it
go, you experience a joy so wonderful that you cannot even begin to describe
it.
Ponder on all of this and let your imagination run wild
and free at the endless possibilities of all that I have said and all that is
before you.
The truth is all around you and before you, can you catch
it!
Will continue on this topic tomorrow with stories and
people’s experiences.
Keep a date with us.
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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