True Love Is Acceptance Without Judgement
How spectacular it would be to live in a world that is free from criticism and judgement and have true love flow easily and all around like pure wine, getting one soaked up in the ecstasy of its sweet and delicious taste.
But alas the world is not like this!
How often do you hear people use the word “true love”
easily and yet are so quick to be condemning and critical of the object of
their desire and affection.
How can true love change so quickly without warning and
become something so vile and distasteful?
It wasn’t true love to begin with that’s for sure!
Then what is it then if it isn’t true love?
Its human love that is critical, judgmental, harsh,
deceptive and abrasive.
It is a much lower form of love than the true love which
is more divinely inspired and loving.
How spectacular and wonderful will it be to just accept
another and others without judgement nor criticism.
To understand that each is on their own path to God and
therefore have their own issues and challenges to face and resolve and they
should be allowed to have their freedom to do so.
When we operate from a high state of consciousness, this
understanding comes to us so easily.
Why?
Because we can see each as a spiritually evolving
magnificent being of light and sound and pure love.
That we have our positives and negatives sides and cannot
be like others as our diversity as a culture and race makes us fundamentally
the unique species that we all are.
In recognizing that, it becomes easier to understand
people struggling to understand their life’s troubles and plight while
operating on the lower state of consciousness.
It becomes easier to simply love others understanding
their plight from a viewpoint of respect and understanding and letting them
work it out in peace.
Then we get to love ourselves and others more wholly,
learning to forgive ourselves and others for the mistakes we made or they made.
Yet mistakes are pivotal steps in our learning, training and education.
They are not to be looked upon and bad only as a slight
detour taken that has led nowhere and from where the right path can now be
taken to achieve success.
With this mindset we no longer are quick to be critical
nor judgmental about others and their perceived wrong doings (behaviour,
choices, attitudes and the likes).
Rather we are at the point of greater understanding to
see their pain, ignorance, the entrapment of the mind and how they think that
they are their mind and how they believe that they are the ones truly acting
out the scenes from the narratives of the mind.
Remember, the mind is a habit mind and therefore very
resistant to change and all it does is supposedly to keep you safe and directed
to the path it believes is best for you.
It is not a logic mind and therefore cannot think and
reason things out analytically, it only goes with what it knows and believes to
be true.
You as the true essence of such light and grace are the
one in charge as the mind is nothing but a tool, a servant to use while living
in this world and undergoing our lessons and trainings.
The mind can easily keep us trapped and lost in the
trappings, majesty and splendor of the world and its creations that we lose
focus and forget who we are and why we are here.
The world is a great web of illusion and until you
understand that and refuse to get caught up in the narratives of the mind, and
the drama of life and all its creations, you are lost in its intricate web of
illusion and deceit.
When you can see the world for what it is and yet at the
same time understand what’s going on in the world, then you has come into
greater understanding of God and its laws and ways.
Then you can appreciate everything around you – people,
animals, birds, insects, plants and vegetation, minerals and elementals, animate
and inanimate things.
Then you come into an appreciation and love for all
things and all of life with a lesser intensity or speed to jump into
conclusions and criticize less quickly.
You understand people and show empathy and compassion
when it is needed, not just by your family and loved ones but also by your
neighbours, community, society and the world in general.
Those close to you and around you and most especially
those who love you and whom you love and cherish, you accept without judgement
and criticism.
You understand their plight and are quick to offer
assistance and help to help them through their challenges and problems.
You are a source of great strength and blessing to them
for it.
In closing, i believe the wisdom below will serve you in
life:
“Thank
you God, for this beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love
reflected in each and every moment, no matter how challenging life may be.
Remind me to always look to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean
Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations from the enlightened ones
will serve you even more:
“I
wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light
of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within
you is the light of a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert
Adam
“Don’t
you know it yet, it is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I
am the light of the world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your
heart is the light of the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and recognizing that we cause all
of our core issues is not a reality for most people.
Taking responsibility to see life differently without
justification, judgement and blame, rejection or anxiety, fear or anger would
really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or
disorder is a spiritual condition that has come up for review and to be dealt
with and taken care of. Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the
conditions or situation reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a
healing has occurred and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a
negative thought and mindset so watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and
guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you
have the courage, commitment and the discipline to move through your
limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by
the stronger pull of that which you truly love’
The purpose of life is to
discover who you really are, know and create yourself and experience yourself
as who you really are (not the body that houses you) as a part of the divine
source to give and receive love and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you
refuse to see yourself as a victim then life becomes a challenge that you can
overcome with commitment and consistent work and it will pay you back
handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a
past life will be forwarded to the current life until you get the lesson right
or understood the reason for it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the
last experience until you recognize it.
This is an interactive
universe where we all work together in each other’s lessons and life whether we
want it or not or whether we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface
when we least expect it and when it does, its better to face the lesson and
conquer it.
You can take back control of
your life and drive it the way you would rather want it to be and have things
and have things the way you want it to be.
It takes taking
responsibility for all the wrongs that have happened in your life because
whether you agree or not, you are held responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to
your cry of wolf or denial or victim mentality and it won’t take you far except
you sit still, take stock of your life and determine and desire to turn it
around and that’s where and when the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now
truly ready to take back control and look out for the patterns and lessons in
your life to understand the mind aberrations that are causing your problems and
have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative
centers open within and you can finally have the tools to help you change the
course of your life and manifest your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must
refuse to see yourself as a loser no matter what the prevailing situation or
condition might be and you evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities
are self-esteem, self-worth and self-confidence and that you understand that
you are entitled to abundance in your life.
You can do anything you want
to and be anything you want to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that
belief!
So ask yourself – are you a
victim?
Sometimes a little help from
a Therapist or Mental Health Consultant like myself and a host of others can
help guide you on this journey into an amazing life that is yours and yours
only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have
questions or need further clarification, please contact me on the email and
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