You Don’t Need To Have It All Together You Are Still Human
The moment you don’t have it all together, you tend to
fall apart or almost fall apart from stress – emotional and mental, giving
precedence to other people’s thoughts and beliefs about you over your own.
You believe that if you don’t have it all together like
others then you are a failure, or any of those other negative thoughts and
emotions that suddenly spring out of nowhere in the mind.
Can you catch my drift?
You understand what am talking about and can relate with
what am saying.
But it’s okay not to have it all together all at once,
this world is a universal institution for learning and adaptability and you are
absolutely allowed to move at your own pace.
No hassles and no worries!
You don’t have to be like Jim or harry or any of your
friends and people you know who seem to magically have it all together and are
doing great, they had their fair share of troubles and facing the unknown
before they got to where they are.
This particular trait makes you human!
You are a powerful divine being wearing a human body and
having a human experience, this means that there will be good days and bad
days, sadness and its equal share of happiness.
It’s not about these events, situations or circumstances,
it’s about your reaction and your attitude both toward them and to life in
general.
On a bad and rotten day when and where everything seems
to go wrong for you, do you take a step back to re-evaluate and re-assess the
situation and circumstances again but this time from a different point of view.
A point where you are high up there and are not stressed
so you can comfortably look for the reason for the situation or the
circumstances, especially the lesson inherent.
Why did this happen to me?
Why did it happen this way?
What am I missing?
What is the situation or condition telling me?
How did I get out of balance?
How do I get back my balance?
How do I resolve and solve the riddle in front of me.
Because you understand that it’s okay not to have it all
together and are now operating from a peaceful point full of gratitude and
love, you radiate a calmness that gets your system into full gear.
Your creative centers open as the mind has the
instruction to get answers and they definitely will come and normally, you will
be astonished at how quickly you can understand the situation or circumstances.
You can now see where you erred and how you got out of
balance and can also see how to easily get back in and stay in control of your
life.
It’s that simple!
On the other hand, if you were to remain so tensed and
gripped with fear, then you cannot see how to get out of your predicament and
the mind will only as usual escalate its narratives and it gets worse from
there.
You can only see things getting worse and this escalates
your stress level and as you add more and more stress to the already stressed
body, then you are inevitably calling on a critical condition which will most
probably get you to the hospital or out flat.
The body can only take as much as it can and soon, it
will be out of energy and basic vital ingredients as the nourishment and vitals
are not getting to it because of your closed circuit.
But as soon as you can just relax and let go and come
back to the high vibrations of love and gratitude, you will be surprised at how
quickly everything turns around and becomes whole and balanced again(usually
the case but then it depends on how far gone or how far out you are in your
thoughts and emotions).
Then you will see that all the worry and stress was for
nothing because in the end, if you will just let things be and life to be what
it will, everything will always work out right.
So because you are human, it’s okay when you don’t have
it all together because you are a work in progress, so relax and let life be!
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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