Aging Gracefully And Exuding Confidence In Life
In this case, it's not
really about your choice but rather about the message it sends to the world and
yourself about your views and perceptions of life and all creations.
Remember, everything in
life is all about how you see and perceive it and not as it is/was
It’s not what you see but
how you see it!
It’s not what you hear
but how you hear it!
It’s not what you feel
but how you feel it or how you are feeling at that moment!
It’s all about you and
how you see the external environment relative to your thoughts and emotions on
the inner world or environment.
Let me illustrate what I
mean:
No one is perfect in
their total knowledge or perception about life and even about God, but people
would rather argue and argue than to sit back and understand each other’s
perspective and understand rather than out rightly rejecting another’s point of
view.
If you are in a balanced
state, you would realize that the world is flux and ever evolving and
expanding, same as you and all creatures.
We are but center points
and focal points from which the source is manifesting divine consciousness of
itself and you are a part of it so logically a divine being.
As you age and advance in
life from all the challenges and trials and tribulations of life, you get to
understand life and the divine scheme/ plan of which you are a significant
part.
All problems and
challenges of life begin to make more sense to you and you begin to see the
picture from the whole than from parts, you can now begin to piece the pieces
of the puzzle together and see what’s meant to be.
The slogan ‘you attract
everything into your life” makes absolute sense to you.
That there is a spiritual
solution to all problem as Wayne Dyer said in his book absolutely strikes a
chord, you can now see how you have unwittingly created every issue and
problem, challenges and disharmony in your life.
You see how you have
consciously or unconsciously, willingly and unwillingly created everything in
your life.
Now you see the way
forward and as you practice finding the solutions to your problems and at the
same time, implementing these solutions and integrating them into your life,
you begin to master changing your life for the better.
As you practice more and
you apply the necessary solutions, you begin to get more confident as you apply
these solutions and they work out for you.
As your life changes
truly for the better and you have come to a greater understanding of why you
had all your problems and challenges in life and how not to get into such
troubles and issues again.
The more you become
proficient at finding solutions and the more they work out for you in your
life, then your confidence starts to grow and you begin to ease up on the
tension and unease that had prevailed and followed you for so long.
Because you now exude
confidence and courage in facing life as your understanding and knowledge has
grown over time, you begin to have joy and happiness in your life.
The more joy and
happiness that flows in your life of course starting from the deep core of
yourself and not anything superficial on the outside, the greater your health
and sub health status improves and you get better and better, stronger and
stronger.
As you live your life,
like a magnet you draw more of what you want into your life, your confidence
can be felt by others and wherever you go, you are admired and envied.
Your confidence surrounds
you and it’s the aura that you carry with you which speaks via “meta
communication” to everyone around you without you saying a world.
Now you are truly aging
gracefully and exuding confidence as nothing bothers you anymore nor gets under
your skin, now you know that all you have to do is let the creative centers
open up and the solutions and answers to the issue or problem will present
itself.
This easy and simple way
of finding solution even pushes your confidence level higher and higher and as
the day goes by and you can find solutions easily, your confidence shoots to
the rooftop.
As you do this over a
long period of time most likely years, the knowledge and wisdom garnered cannot
be traded for anything in the world and you become a go to resource for the
younger generation.
You move easily and
flawlessly through life and as you age gracefully, you exude confidence in your
life that is felt everywhere by everyone.
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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