We Are Creatures Of Habits So To Change You Must Break Your Habits
Since we are the creatures of habits and everything
showing up in our lives are simply manifestation of the habits that have become
a part of our lives, mostly from past lives up to the present one.
Some people are so cast in their habits and subsequently
playing out this role that they would tell you it’s who they are and say so
proudly, that’s the sad reality of habits and being stuck in it.
Society also has its own role to play in casting people
into roles of males and females and what is expected of each role in the
society.
Let me illustrate what I mean:
Generally, females have been subjugated to the role of
playing second fiddle to the men and it’s a role females have so adjusted and
been accustomed to, that they have no concept of it this is right or wrong.
When you ask a typical female about this view point, the
answer is generally the same.
They don’t know how it started, all they know is that’s
the way they were raised and born into.
Another concept can be seen in the educational
institutions all over the world, schools teach the young ones to be subservient
to their elders and superiors and not to questions authority.
They train the young ones to become employees, to seek
employment and to always look to work under another’s control. That typically
being the boss in the organization or company where they go.
When at a young age, children ask questions or seek to
understand why certain things are the way they are, they are hushed up and told
not to ask questions but only the obey without question.
What we now see is a generation of young teens and young
adults who have become creatures of habit and obey authority without question.
They don’t seem to think for themselves because somebody
(older of course) had said they should do something this way or that way and
that’s what they do without question.
They aren’t taught to think for themselves in order to
tap into the vast pool of creativity that you as a magnificent being is blessed
with and open the vast center of creativity that you are blessed with.
But because we are creatures of habit, we are dulled into
an existence where others think for you especially at such young ages where
your creativity is bursting to come forth and explode.
The few who have broken the norm and allowed their
creativity to burst forth and allowed it to run wild and fetter irrespective of
societal orders or direction, they have become the great and wise men and women
of all ages.
They are in every generation and across all board
throughout the world.
They are the ones who have proved the topic above as
true:
We are indeed creatures of habits so to change you must
break your habits and be fearless to face the unknown.
Habits are formed from beliefs that have been held in the
mind and believed in over a period of time.
Usually they are ingrained when we are kids by authority
figures like:
1. Parents
2. Guardians
3. Care
givers
4. Teachers
5. Relatives
6. Society
at large
Being authority figures, kids are bamboozled to obey
without question and that’s what they grow up with and before you know it, it
has become law and the young adults now believe in it totality.
They believe it to be their reality yet it was a simple
statement held unto for too long.
Some great and wise ones were labelled “learning
disabled” by their teachers and school over conditions they don’t understand
and didn’t bother about, they just saw them as kids with issues and problems.
By eventually breaking the habit of believing they have a
problem, they realized they don’t and using the power of the mind recreated
their reality by breaking their habits.
The habits formed by a belief pattern they were labelled
with when they were young and which had become a stigma and their reality for
that period of time.
As soon as they broke the habit and pattern of thinking,
they were able to recreate their reality and become the geniuses that they are
today.
Only because they were willing to break the habits
irrespective of the consequences.
The same applies to entrepreneurs and successful business
men and women who broke the habit of job seeking or employee status and label
being taught in schools, by wanting something outside of this norm for
themselves.
They decided not to follow the usual rules from school
but challenged themselves to do better and be better and different from the
others.
By this they were able to tap into their high states of
vibration and open the creative centers, and from there the wisdom of their
businesses flooded into their mind and the rest is what you see manifested
today.
They weren’t born geniuses or with super natural powers,
they were just normal people who decided to break a habit pattern and do things
differently and found the truth hidden therein.
A famous example of Oprah Winfrey, whose grandmother saw
her also fulfilling the roles and tasks of the black people of that era,
serving as maids to the whites and their families.
They advised Oprah to become accordingly and hopefully
get into a family that would treat her right and take care of here and where
she would be fine.
But young Oprah at age six saw her life differently from
what her grandmother saw for her, she vowed not to end up as a maid as her
grandmother and her grandmother’s contemporaries and rather make a name for
herself in life.
She achieved that and even much more than she probably
envisaged as today the world over, she is recognized and respected as a
successful business woman and she is a multi-billionaire to cap it all.
That was a something her grandmother couldn’t envisage
for her, neither saw nor even believe could happen to her yet it did.
How did that happen you ask?
She broke the habits that she as countless others have
been ingrained with from childhood and rather took a course for herself
charting the course of her own life and reality.
She decided not to be the creature of habit and rather
new that to change her life, she had to change the habit.
The habit then was working as a maid and that was a role
she never saw for herself, dreamed for herself or envisaged for herself.
Rather she saw herself as she is now back in the day and
despite not knowing what could come out of it all and how it will all play out,
she went with the flow.
The dream that she held unto that took her past school
and into her initial jobs and then she decided to break that and shape her own
reality as she wanted.
She was even fired from television because they said she
wasn’t good for television.
We all know how that turned out!
So if you want to create a better life for yourself then
it’s time to make some changes in your life.
Since we are creatures of habit, to change you must break
the habits that keep you tied or have kept you tied or chained to the mind
level where you are at the moment.
You must dream big and envisage exactly what you want and
desire for yourself and your loved ones and be ready to do so at any cost.
That’s the only way to break the habit and set yourself
free!
In closing, i believe the
wisdom below will serve you in life:
“Thank you God, for this
beautiful day today. Help me to always see your love reflected in each and
every moment, no matter how challenging life may be. Remind me to always look
to my heart for the LESSONS and BLESSINGS in life”.
Jean Voice Dart!
These words of Inspirations
from the enlightened ones will serve you even more:
“I wish I could show you
when you are lonely or in darkness, the astonishing light of your own being”.
Hafiz
“Within you is the light of
a thousand suns, within you is unimaginable beauty”.
Robert Adam
“Don’t you know it yet, it
is your light that illuminates the worlds”.
Rumi
“I am the light of the
world. You are the light of the world”.
Jesus
“Your heart is the light of
the world, don’t cover it with your mind”.
Mooji
Taking responsibility and
recognizing that we cause all of our core issues is not a reality for most
people.
Taking responsibility to see
life differently without justification, judgement and blame, rejection or
anxiety, fear or anger would really help you in the long run.
Every condition, disease or disorder is a spiritual
condition that has come up for review and to be dealt with and taken care of.
Once the lesson is truly learnt and absorbed, the conditions or situation
reverses itself and clears out and that’s when we say a healing has occurred
and a miracle has happened.
Every problem preludes a negative thought and mindset so
watch your thoughts and emotions carefully and guard them jealously.
Nothing can stop you if you have the courage, commitment
and the discipline to move through your limitations.
‘Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which
you truly love’
The purpose of life is to discover who you really are,
know and create yourself and experience yourself as who you really are (not the
body that houses you) as a part of the divine source to give and receive love
and serve all creatures of the divine.
As long as you don’t or you refuse to see yourself as a
victim then life becomes a challenge that you can overcome with commitment and
consistent work and it will pay you back handsomely.
A lesson you avoided in a past life will be forwarded to
the current life until you get the lesson right or understood the reason for
it. Each time the lesson is more intense, than the last experience until you
recognize it.
This is an interactive universe where we all work
together in each other’s lessons and life whether we want it or not or whether
we are aware of it or not.
Our fears always surface when we least expect it and when
it does, its better to face the lesson and conquer it.
You can take back control of your life and drive it the
way you would rather want it to be and have things and have things the way you
want it to be.
It takes taking responsibility for all the wrongs that
have happened in your life because whether you agree or not, you are held
responsible for all your:
1. THOUGHTS
2. WORDS
3. ACTION
Nobody wants to listen to your cry of wolf or denial or
victim mentality and it won’t take you far except you sit still, take stock of
your life and determine and desire to turn it around and that’s where and when
the answers or solutions come in.
If and when you are now truly ready to take back control
and look out for the patterns and lessons in your life to understand the mind
aberrations that are causing your problems and have taken control of your life.
That’s when the creative centers open within and you can
finally have the tools to help you change the course of your life and manifest
your destiny.
To succeed in life, you must refuse to see yourself as a
loser no matter what the prevailing situation or condition might be and you
evaluate what you can do to succeed.
The most important qualities are self-esteem, self-worth
and self-confidence and that you understand that you are entitled to abundance
in your life.
You can do anything you want to and be anything you want
to, provided you believe that it is possible.
Victims do not hold that belief!
So ask yourself – are you a victim?
Sometimes a little help from a Therapist or Mental Health
Consultant like myself and a host of others can help guide you on this journey
into an amazing life that is yours and yours only.
This is all for now!
Remember if you have questions or need further
clarification, please contact me on the email and phone numbers listed below:
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